Why is everyone being accused of bullying

Well why some people are sexually harassed and only talk about it years later? Because it's not easy to talk about it and bullying isn't either. Most people just wish to forget as it usually is when it comes to traumatic experiences. Why did this man waited over 3 decades to confront his bully? Obviously, to take a weight off his shoulders.

I thinks it's beacuse when you see someby speaking up about such a topic (especially if it's releated to a famou person) it gives you strenght to finally speak about it, like what happened with the Me Too movement.

Also, everyone has their traumas and time, so I'm not going to judge anoyone for waiting 5/10/20 years to feel encouraged to speak.

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I'm so confused like if you were bullied by Soojin why didn't you come out when she first debuted??? like what's going on. If she did bully that person then that's messed up but like can we not normalized believing someone right off the bat like netizens live for drama too damn much.

Not everyone in Korea follows Kpop as much as the people on this site or on Reddit, Twitter etc.
Maybe that person only recently noticed that Soojin is a kpop idol?

There have been cases where it's true and there have been cases where people just want to ruin other person's life. We really can't trust anybody...

Bcoz it takes courage to speak out and this has nothing to do with Soojin, it's been that way everywhere for the victims.

Idk but sometimes victims are afraid to speak up immediately. It takes years before they feel secure and brave enough to talk about their trauma. Just like the "me too movement". For outsiders like us it is difficult to understand why you would wait so long before saying anything. Some are true, some may be false.

My best friend recently confessed she has been abused starting at the age of 13 by her stepfather. She has been depressed for years and no one knew why. Now we know, but it took her 7 years to finally stand up for herself. Usually victims are afraid. ashamed and vulnerable.

What the others said +

there were some rumors floating around that a gidle member was a bully but it never gained attention because at that time, gidle wasn't that popular, also the fans buried it down. but since now gidle is much more popular, especially soojin, it got attention.

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Not everyone in Korea follows Kpop as much as the people on this site or on Reddit, Twitter etc.
Maybe that person only recently noticed that Soojin is a kpop idol?

Thats impossible. Her and G-idle have been in the news for their achievements and Soojins beauty. Plus stans put up posters for their idols birthdays. That person knew from the beginning

I don't think it's so much about "being hard to speak about it" as it is "I see that person is successful, I don't want to see someone who hurt me in the past being successful"

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I don't think it's so much about "being hard to speak about it" as it is "I see that person is successful, I don't want to see someone who hurt me in the past being successful"

karma is a bitch

They waited obviously for revenge lol

G-idle are doing well now so this would hit harder that way. If they had revealed earlier, no one would care because they were nugu.