[theqoo] Another age gap controversy: 'MOM IN HER 30'S' HONG YOUNGKI, MOTHER OF 2 KIDS... "AMERICAN MIDDLE SCHOOLERS ASKED HER NUMBER"

wait so what is the controversy about ? her bf or the kids asking ger number ?

I don't see any too negative comments so is there a controversy?

Anyway I don't understand why she would give them her number wtf it's weird

And about her being pregnant with 17 y/o is also super weird ...too young

If they were just casually dating I would be like ok whatever as long as the older party isn't taking an advantage of the younger but they should have refrained from having sex

She was 20 , she should have been the responsible one but if they are still together and happy...who are we to judge I guess

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Ok this might sound innocent but she was 20 and her bf was 17 when they got pregnant with their first kid

so I wonder what do other users in the age gap thread think about this?

They won't come because it is a woman who is older in this case so they don't care

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yeah I wanna see how people would react to this compare to the other case

Cause this is even more problematic

Someone who ended up with a kid with a minor is now bragging about getting other minor's phone number?

Yeah this is actually really problematic unlike the drama where all that happened was the male lead confessing his feelings , they didn't even date but this

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The fuck is she wearing a school uniform for?

Because she is at Universal studio

it's a thing there

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what if that 17 year old would be 190 cm, 85 kg and would 'use' situation when bit older petite woman is tipsy/drunk?

Why are you making up scenarios? Obviously taking advantage over someone when they are drunk is wrong no matter the age but this is not the case?? If you have more info about them , feel free to post it

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Ok this might sound innocent but she was 20 and her bf was 17 when they got pregnant with their first kid

so I wonder what do other users in the age gap thread think about this?

A 20 yr old getting pregnant by a 17 yr old is even worse than the previous scenario imo

But what's the controversy here? The comments are okay

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Why is it consider a controversy ?

Not even in the comments knetz think it's controversial

I don't think it is q controversy but it should be

30 y/o woman exchanging numbers with kids

We can see the double standards here

Knetz don't care because she is a woman, pretty and looks very young

Why a older woman get excited when minors ask her out? Like they didn't knew so she should have tell them

Why is a grown woman giving out her numbers to kids? And why did she hide the fact that she is not a child like them?. This is predatory.

This is such weird flex gross

I even doubt the kids asked her number in the sense of “asking her number” maybe they thought she was famous or some other reason.

To frame it like this of itself is gross af.

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yeah I wanna see how people would react to this compare to the other case

Cause this is even more problematic

Someone who ended up with a kid with a minor is now bragging about getting other minor's phone number?

The fake concern and performative activism is big here.

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u talking about me?

No, I mean the people who where throwing a tantrum in that Drama scenario Thread because they thought a 4 years age gap between someone who is considered an adult in most countries is problematic. Yet they aren’t here with the same energy… in fact many aren’t even commenting.

Performative activism .

gonna say this: she looks younger than me lol

but if she's in her thirty's lmao I gotta know her secrets

I guess she doesn't mind the attention but like here's hoping she never goes though and start friendships with those boys lol that ain't right.

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yeah I wanna see how people would react to this compare to the other case

Cause this is even more problematic

Someone who ended up with a kid with a minor is now bragging about getting other minor's phone number?

I wonder where the loud mennists who always bring up men’s issues in women’s conversations are now.

It’s always used as a weapon and they never actually discuss these issues when they need to be.

Even now the only conversations these people want to have is “OMG DOUBLE STANDARDS” and not the actual issue. This is how you know those people never have and never will care about men or women’s issues and their goal is to say “gotcha”

But then this is very common I suppose even you as an OP want to establish the confirmation bias of a “double standard” existing instead of just addressing the issue… the goal has always been to gas light women. Not to address the issue. But I suppose that’s all that can be expected from AKP.

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I wanted to see the reaction of people and compare them

since you are so hot and fucking bothered all the time, you should go back and actually read my take on the other thread

There is a double standard? ofc fucking it is

Women who date younger get tons of more backlash than men who date younger

you are right about one thing

I do not give a fuck about men right, never did, never will

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Right and the way you came to this conclusion is because people care more about a big name drama or idol and not some random influencer?

Oh you’re right a female idol who dates a minor will ofc be given a free pass no question about it. I’m so sorry for questioning your confirmation bias. Carry on. Great OP.

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you really do not even bother to read what other people write and just spew some random outrage lmao

you are not the big women defender you think you are

“I wanted to see the reaction of people and compare them” and I’m explicitly saying this sets the tone wrong….and should never be the basis of a discussion that’s serious.

And I’m the one spewing random outrage

I understood your motivation perfectly and am calling it wrong.

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To want to compare people's reactions? I did not bait them into this

I said it in my first post that I want to see their reactions and opinions on this case compare to that one

And here you are popping off with all new outrage vocabulary before other people can even comment.

Who made you the police of how people can talk about an issue?

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I give up. I find your motivation and the tone you set with the OP wrong. I exercised free will and gave that opinion.

I don’t particularly care now what you want to do with that criticism.

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Yes you always give up on actually discussing your points and resort to name calling bc why not

being loud and throwing insults is easier

Nice try. It won’t work but nice try. Keep telling yourself that ♥️

wtf

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Ok this might sound innocent but she was 20 and her bf was 17 when they got pregnant with their first kid

so I wonder what do other users in the age gap thread think about this?

I subscribe to the 1/2 one's age plus 7 philosophy for the most part so that seems fine

if she wants to have kids at 20 then that's her right i guess

giving one's number out to junior high schoolers sounds weird...