Sure, all those things you mention are bad, and it's fully justified not to like her. But I think the point the OP is trying to make is that if you don't like her, the appropriate response is to not pay attention to her.
Instead there are folks out that the condemn her rudeness and bad actions and then turn around and spew hatred and vile things at her. Her bad actions don't justify bad actions towards her.
I really don't get your points. Did these people claim to be saints or something to be called hypocrite? Where exactly did you guys see these people claim as such? From the reality that I am from, you don't give racist people respect, neither rude people. You don't have to ignore them either. How you react is completely up to an individual. Calling people "hypocrites" when they get mad at an actually rude person is just about the funniest thing to me. By that logic people shouldn't say mean things about Trump either.
Not you guys gaslighting.