i feel like its a common perception that the average female body is more aesthetic than the average male body which maybe somewhat true due to presence of more variation in shapes but the male body CAN be VERY aesthetic and beautiful
its just that the male body that is considered beautiful is one that is very defined which definitely takes maintenance ( to varying degrees ) compared to a very average female body
then again, recently men ARE starting to take care of their bodies a lot more
though it is rarer, the male body can be astonishing
its just not given enough credit