Solo stans all say the same thing
Trust me I know
I once decided to follow accounts on twitter dedicated to every member of BTS
and they all had the same thing to say
"the fandom hates my bias"
"my bias is mistreated by the company"
"the other members treat my bias differently"
and so on
Until I realised that the entire environment is just toxic so I unfollowed a bunch of them
As a new fan
Before twitter I used youtube comments to follow BTS
and let me tell you how annoying the comments were
It was enough to convince you that your favourite member always gets the short end of the stick
and you find yourself getting bitter feelings towards other members
One time I wanted to fight Jimin biases over Jhope and the topic was "the best dancer in BTS"
I also wanted to fight for Jungkook because other solos thought he was getting too many parts
When I finally left that toxic environment and gained clarity
I realised both are great dancers with their own strengths and weaknesses
I can compare them both now without getting mad over the discussion
and I've always thought Jungkook deserves every part that he gets
I can compare every member of bts without getting mad
because all of them have their own strengths and weaknesses
and I've come to the conclusion that all of them are needed
but a solo stan thinks their bias is more important than the rest of the group members
That the group is dragging them down
hence why they want the member to leave to achieve greater success
I made this thread to tell some of you that may or may not be but instead becoming solo stans
to just leave the toxic environments, that's the best remedy
and rediscover bts or any one of your favourite groups through the members and not the fans
Had to make this thread because some of y'all posts just be sounding like cries for help