this list is very long, so go ahead and get your popcorn🍿
let's jump right into it y'all
1. When kpop stans go to a concert or fansign, please look good and stop dressing like you about to meet a friend up the street
2. I'm happy the newer generation of idols, mainly the male ones, aren't "queer-baiting" as much. Cuz I remember when I first got into kpop, I used to see a bunch of ship videos and "xyz gay moments" videos trending a lot💀...it's good to just be yourself
3. Buying kpop albums and PCs are pointless because at the end of the day..it's just paper and it's gonna sit in your closet or shelf forever without you going back to it
4. A lot of fanwars are pointless, because majority of the time, those people arguing are listening to the other person's fave anyway (spotify wrap confirmed that)
5. It's okay to never go to a kpop concert okay? Most likely you weren't gonna get front row barricade anyway
6. Aegyo is still relevant in kpop, yes, but its not as sought after these days in kpop..at least compared to a few years ago
7. it's messed up to stop stanning a group just because they started to become popular. Like isn't that what you wanted anyway??? For your idol to get noticed by the world
8. I get kpop fans spend a bunch of money for fansigns and fan meetings, but no way should they be able to hold hands and touch the idols face. That's too much and idols are humans, not puppies
9. Kpoppies don't even care fr if a idol does something problematic or be racist. If that idol is a competition to their faves or liked a lot and has success, Kpoppies gonna act like they care and jump on the band wagon in order to help decrease the idol or group popularity
10. Just because you make a idol say something, doesn't mean they actually believe in what your making them say. Most ARE homophobic, racist, xenophobic, and don't really care about what's going on in the world
11. The whole educating idols on fancalls thing is cringey and embarrassing. Why waste your 2 minutes or 30 seconds complaining...$200 down the drain I guess lmao
12. Please stop taking kpop so damn seriously. These people don't know you, NO they did not change your life, you just used them as a coping mechanism and used them to fill whatever void was missing. And No you'll never date them or be friends with them. So cursing people out and crying all over the place cuz people don't like your faves is delusional and you need help...like bad