To be honest, for me fandom doesn’t mean much. I actively avoid following anything but update accounts or news accounts on twitter to avoid having to see “fandom discourse”.
I’m generally someone who likes kpop overall so I tend to like a lot of different groups and artists, and a lot of the time those various fandoms are fighting with each other, feuding, acting a damn fool by dragging each other etc.
At one point I completely stopped listening to kpop for a long time (years) and it was mostly because of fandom politics and just losing all enjoyment of the music because of it.
Now, I got back into kpop and I’m really enjoying it, but I pretty much lost most of my association or ties to any fandom and just freely enjoy the music. I think it’s the best way.
Although then I question why I’m even in here lol.