If someone dumps/rejects you, would you ask for a reason?
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SandyBee3
Changed the title of the thread from “If someone dumbs you, would you ask for a reason?” to “If someone dumps/rejects you, would you ask for a reason?”. -
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Yeah, if someone suddenly breaks up with me I would obviously want to know the reason.
Now that I remember, I got dumped in middle school and the guy didn't tell me the reason why. The curiosity still haunts me to this day sometimes.
And in the case of rejection nah. I don't require it, I will just take the L.
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I think if you were dating and suddenly your bf/gf wants to break up I would also ask. I wouldn’t want to change. If there was something your partner things was annoying and he/she really loved you they would told you that instead of just breaking up.
But if it’s like I’m having a crush on someone and I ask them for a date and I get rejected, I won’t ask for a reason.
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Nah. Only if I truly cared about them.
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If we were dating and they asked to break up, obviously I'd ask why so I could either figure out how to fix things or just go our seperate ways without any problems or regrets.
However, if someone rejects me then I'd just move on and forget about them, idrc because I've rejected people in the past and no matter how they try to change themselves, I can never be interested in them so I don't want others to give me false hope either.
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I like to know why we weren't compatible, I like to clear the air as so I can learn from the experience, given time to grieve the break up, I then like to have an objective look at where we both went wrong and apologise to each other. This works well for me but that always how Ive done it, it's been fine.
Relationships break up when theres a breakdown between two people so (besides other factors not involving cheating thats usually one sided) so both warrant some fault, however leaning usually more to one side than the other.
Relationships are a learning experience. If you multiple relationships with different types of people and all breakdown in a similar way, it would be wise to question yourself in where your going wrong, either your attracted to the wrong types of people, therefore you can avoid certain characteristics or there is flaw in your character that you have yet realise and understand.
When comes to crushes, there really isn't a point, they either like you or they don't, no real point to dwell on it
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Relationships are a learning experience. If you multiple relationships with different types of people and all breakdown in a similar way, it would wise to question yourself in where your going wrong, either your attracted to the wrong types of people, there for you can avoid certain characteristics or the is flaw in your character that you have yet to realise and understand.
That’s an interesting point tho. You often see people saying all women/men are trash because they had many failed relationships. But if all your relationships went down the same way, it can’t just be the fault of the other, you’re doing something wrong too. I think people just choose what they already used too.
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well know thyself, know thy enemy, 1000 battles 1000 victories
knowledge is power so someone telling us why they didn't like us is important for future relationships
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