And I kind of ghosted them because I don't know how to react/reply I don't see them that way I think it's a mess 
A close friend tried to flirt over chat
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At least they shot their shot?
Just reply and say that you don't feel the same.
Ghosting is bad.
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it is so weird when your friends try to flirt or ask you out. I never know how to respond
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it is so weird when your friends try to flirt or ask you out. I never know how to respond
it happened to me as well. I just clear the air straight away.
Even if I'm blunt, they know I want to preserve a friendship.
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Oh shoot friendship over
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It depends on what you mean by flirting and how is your dynamic
tbh one of my closest friends is a dude who asked me out first and I said no but we still got close as friends
He still asks me out every other year or so
Its like a tradition at this point
I could never lol.
I've had multiple bad experiences with this.
Happy it worked out for you guys though.
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I could never lol.
I've had multiple bad experiences with this.
Happy it worked out for you guys though.
I think the difference is if the friendship was real or the other side was just using it as a rouse to get close to you.
There have been people who pretended they don't even know me anymore after I rejected them.
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assert dominance fight them
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I think the difference is if the friendship was real or the other side was just using it as a rouse to get close to you.
There have been people who pretended they don't even know me anymore after I rejected them.
Yup. 2/3 times for me, the friendship was a lie.
Or, I was the only one who thought we were friends.
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It depends on what you mean by flirting and how is your dynamic
tbh one of my closest friends is a dude who asked me out first and I said no but we still got close as friends
He still asks me out every other year or so
Its like a tradition at this point
lulu on your deathbed say yes to him!!! lol
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to the OP
communication communication communication!!!
just explain that you don't feel the same way
try putting yourself in his shoes and imagine if you asked a dude (or dudette) out and they ghosted you because of it - how would that make you feel?
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