any life tips to share?

1. If you want to do something then do it; don't wait for the "right time" because there is never a "right time". If you keep waiting for the "right time" you'll miss your opportunity.

2. Sometimes you are the problem, and learn how to be self-critical without being self-destructive.

3. Stop pointing out flaws in people. You'll be a happier person if you don't because usually you're projecting your own insecurities onto others.

4. Don't care about what others think of your life decisions. It's your life not theirs.

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Don't eat yellow snow.

Dont play cost VS benefit when it comes to human relationships

Just bc you have been friend/lover with someone for a long time, doesnt mean you should continue to do so

Get paid. Get laid. Gatorade.

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Don't eat yellow snow.

is that from umm...experience???

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when you have none of these things in your life

I got the first only

If you are wondering if sth is safe to eat or not, you shouldnt eat it

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Don't eat yellow snow.

What is the yellow snow referring to?

Just off the top of my head:

-Be authentic to yourself - really own it and be happy with who you are because there's only one of you; don't compare yourself to others - focus on leveling up yourself in the ways you want and that makes you happy

-Avoid toxic and insecure people - unless they recognize it themselves that they are the problem and needs to change - it's just drama never ending.... You can't change people that don't want to change and don't stay in that toxic situation -- it's so traumatizing and your time/energy is too precious to be wasted on them. Unless the toxic ppl are your immediate family, then you have to develop a mitigation and survival plan - seek help or a mentor - because it's a long, hard process but many people are managing successfully

-Don't be mean- it doesn't take much to be kind and a simple act of kindness can truly save lifes or impact people in profound ways just as a cruel act can be sooo traumatic or detrimental to someone already struggling. I get it - everyone has bad days but just take a deep breath and go exercise out your anger/stress/frustrations instead of dropping in onto someone else

not good advice but if you can't afford to do certain things the right way --

find out the crimes that are small and no one enforces. (like pirating instead of paying for movies)

I'll make it that little bit more comfortable.

If things are just DUN WANNA DO IT like seriously ew but gotta do it... verbally, out loud, tell yourself you gotta do it. Tell yourself the consequences of not doing it, tell yourself how much better you'd feel if you did it. Its weird and it makes you look crazy, but it helps.

also drink lotsa water.

also also exercise regularly, even if its for like 5 mins each day.

Set a schedule and stick to it no matter how arbitrary something on that schedule is. (<< this is especially good if you have adhd. even if you have no impending responsibilites, create work and create play time for yourself to keep yourself regimented. That way your routine regularly feeds you objectives so you aren't lost and then distracted during the day.)

If you find it hard to keep track of time instinctively, find a mental image of time you can use. I tend to use a circle and subdivide it to how i need for a duration for something and I use a vertical rectangle to schedule things for that day, each event stacks in to it.

Also keep a clock within easy reach and access to sync your brain time to the real time.

Dont trush anybody 100%.

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i feel awkward giving life advice as a dumb 17 y/o but

- don't make friends for the sake of having friends. connect with people because you can actually relate to / understand them, and because you find them interesting.

- have at least "escape" place that's within reasonable driving / walking distance like a cafe or library.

- trust people, but also be careful about who you let into your / tell your secrets to.

- it's better to be consistently decent and respectful to people than to waste your energy being unnecessarily sweet. if you're not naturally like that, it'll just drain your reserves and make you bitter.

- find something you're passionate about

- return the same energy that people give to you. not if they're mean or toxic ofc, but if you have a friend who doesn't love you as much as you love them, take a step back from them and focus that affection on someone who cares in the same way.

- listen to IU

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i kinda wished i knew some of these when i was younger sadly i had to learn the hard way.

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i stole a piece of 59 cent chocolate recently

bruh not that petty.

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Dont trush anybody 100%.

be like batman/iron man always have a backup plan.

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MEN SUCK DATE ME

jk

You ain't out there to please anyone but yourself. Fuck everybody else.

trust no one but me lol

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ill date you anyday (JOKING)

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bethesda

Kataphract

i said what i said

I mean I pay nothing for essentially the same movies and TV shows.

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I was gonna post this....

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But thought it might be a bit inappropriate

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masterpiece.

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It's supposed to imply that someone has peed on the snow.

there wasnt a vomit reaction sooo