Cut toxic friends out from your life

I agree. It may feel hard, but it’s worth it.

indeed but the hardest part isn't the cutting out...

the hardest part is to recognise which friends are toxic!!!

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indeed but the hardest part isn't the cutting out...

the hardest part is to recognise which friends are toxic!!!

Really? I tend to think if they call you a sheep when you aren’t one, that’s a good sign that they are toxic.

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Really? I tend to think if they call you a sheep when you aren’t one, that’s a good sign that they are toxic.

yeah but when certain people then go full on sheep it's hard to take such sheep seriously

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yeah but when certain people then go full on sheep it's hard to take such sheep seriously

I have done no such thing!

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I have done no such thing!

who said anything about you my friend

I was speaking more generally...

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Really? I tend to think if they call you a sheep when you aren’t one, that’s a good sign that they are toxic.

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yeah but when certain people then go full on sheep it's hard to take such sheep seriously

What sheep are you guys sheeping

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What sheep are you guys sheeping

what we do in the privacy of our paddock is none of your sheeping business!!!

Why is everyone talking about sheeps

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What sheep are you guys sheeping

Selfmate keeps on insisting that I’m a sheep.

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what we do in the privacy of our paddock is none of your sheeping business!!!

That’s a good one. I’ll save that for the future.

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Why is everyone talking about sheeps

Selfmate thinks I’m a sheep, and ever since then, he has been calling me one. Something about how I follow what other people say or am gullible or I even forget what at this point. Once, I even had a sheep profile picture to play into the joke. It was funny.

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Selfmate thinks I’m a sheep, and ever since then, he has been calling me one. Something about how I follow what other people say or am gullible or I even forget what at this point. Once, I even had a sheep profile picture to play into the joke. It was funny.

Welp you are a little gullible and almost too nice. Love you but the fact that I have to ask you not to give me akorns is kinda telling

This is true

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Welp you are a little gullible and almost too nice. Love you but the fact that I have to ask you not to give me akorns is kinda telling

Oh, I’m very gullible. I believe everything that everyone tells me with me with not nearly enough exceptions. I just never stop and think people could be wrong or lying.

It kind of is. You have a point there.

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Oh, I’m very gullible. I believe everything that everyone tells me with me with not nearly enough exceptions. I just never stop and think people could be wrong or lying.

It kind of is. You have a point there.

Not a bad trait really. The ones who lie is at fault, not the ones who believe them.

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Not a bad trait really. The ones who lie is at fault, not the ones who believe them.

True, there are worse things to be all things considered.

I'm trying to but it's hard

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I'm trying to but it's hard

You can do it, I know you can. It’ll be hard, but worth it, I promise. Also, anything I can do to help or make it easier for you?

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You can do it, I know you can. It’ll be hard, but worth it, I promise. Also, anything I can do to help or make it easier for you?

I wanna make a separate thread to rant about it so Join me

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I wanna make a separate thread to rant about it so Join me

I will, just tag me in case I miss it.

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YouChanDoThis

I'm afraid youchan isn't telling you the entire story since her memory is a little fuzzy!!!

it started in the blink guild where we were (as usual) making fun of one kittykitka...and randomly I decided to defend said kitty and so I politely asked youchan if I could be mean to youchan and she replied with words to the effect of "go for it" so I went for something that might be annoying but certainly not something that one would be highly offended by and went with sheep

and youchan apparently changed her DP and sig and everything!!!

and that is that lol

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LovenRose

YouChanDoThis

I'm afraid youchan isn't telling you the entire story since her memory is a little fuzzy!!!

it started in the blink guild where we were (as usual) making fun of one kittykitka...and randomly I decided to defend said kitty and so I politely asked youchan if I could be mean to youchan and she replied with words to the effect of "go for it" so I went for something that might be annoying but certainly not something that one would be highly offended by and went with sheep

and youchan apparently changed her DP and sig and everything!!!

and that is that lol

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Don’t insult my memory! You’re wrong! Completely wrong, with all of it!

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Don’t insult my memory! You’re wrong! Completely wrong, with all of it!

ahh yes I'm the one that is wrong...my bad

please forgive me

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ahh yes I'm the one that is wrong...my bad

please forgive me

Instructions Unclear; No friends to cut out.

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mods ban these people for derailing

YouChanDoThis  selfmate

mods, ban this person for being mean.

Tbh cut someone from ur life the moment u start dreading talking to them or the thought of them gives u anxiety.

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that was one of the reason i broke up with my boyfriend.

Sorry to hear that but yeah thats definitely not how u should feel in a relationship, they should make u feel happy, safe and comfortable in their presence and i'm sure you'll find someone like that for you

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thank you tiki(i can call you that?) I'm fine now it's been like around a year so

Of course you can!

Glad to hear that! You should always look to be happy in a relationship! Either friendship or a romantic one

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LovenRose

YouChanDoThis

I'm afraid youchan isn't telling you the entire story since her memory is a little fuzzy!!!

it started in the blink guild where we were (as usual) making fun of one kittykitka...and randomly I decided to defend said kitty and so I politely asked youchan if I could be mean to youchan and she replied with words to the effect of "go for it" so I went for something that might be annoying but certainly not something that one would be highly offended by and went with sheep

and youchan apparently changed her DP and sig and everything!!!

and that is that lol

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Ah so it’s really YouChan who brought it on themselves I see, I see

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Ah so it’s really YouChan who brought it on themselves I see, I see

I was young and naive, you don’t get to blame me!

or be like me and have no friends

Actually humans are born to be selfish. So dont feel sorry to be selfish. Just dont let the society knows. Keep it to yourself. Thats what smart people do

So true. I can't imagine how my mental health would be if I stuck with the toxic friends I cut off years ago