Nope. I don't have any friends RL that i can physically go to, and I like it that way. My "online" friends are incredibly talented, great people, and those I envy and look up to.
Is my best friend and has been for over 3 years. we met before kpop and she got me into kpop. I envy her in many ways, she's talented, patient, funny, wacky etc. I hope one day we can meet in RL because she's the one person I have ever trusted in my life who's never let me down.
No I don't. I was always raised to be as good as anyone else, not better than anyone else and that's how I live my life.
Being honest yes. Its something I struggle with. I think its quite normal to compare yourself to others, especially those who you are close too. And because I'm very flawed lol and def have my ego, I tend to either feel hurt or better about myself.
I've gotten better this,and choosing what matters to me and what doesn't. But I still have my superficial moments for sure
Truthfully yes, it is ingrained into my mind that I need to be at the same point in my life as my friends (I’m very much lagging begind and thats an issue).
Hmmm...with friends I consider them almost like family. They are a safe space so I feel honoured to make friends with someone who does better than me. If its a sibling however. Every achievement of theirs will be held against me so I die a little inside. The way I deal with it is kinda toxic...I try to achieve a grander achievement more so for others to see than for myself.
shut up 
shut up
cry cry
Yeah, but I don’t think it’s to the point of making me miserable, 90% it’s mostly just being inspired by them, the other 10% of feeling “inferiority” it’s something f I can’t help but doesn’t last much because I know everyone is going through their own hardships
Yeah, but I don’t think it’s to the point of making me miserable, 90% it’s mostly just being inspired by them, the other 10% of feeling “inferiority” it’s something f I can’t help but doesn’t last much because I know everyone is going through their own hardships
Nope.
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