MissBehave-type thread: What is the most valuable lesson K-pop has taught you?

It taught me that if someone is trying to constantly change you or makes you feel bad or guilty about the things you like, you should probably run away from that toxic relationship before it really becomes bad.

It taught me to appreciate my joys and small happinesses, no matter how silly they may seem.

That's probably much deeper than it needs to be.

hard work doesnt always result in proportional amount of success

Only work hard in what you truly enjoy not for a certain results

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This is a good one. Is this in general reference to the amount of hard work idols and trainees put in?

yes

Almost every group put incredible amount of efforts in their work, but they certainly wont end up with the same results

guys can wear make up, itzok!

I thought basketball fans had some of the weirdest people

which also takes me to my second point that kpop stans really take stan (Eminem's song) literally sometimes

That hard work can beat natural talent eventually. As long as you have the perseverance and dedication to not give up, you can reach the heights you want to.

It will be difficult and it will take a long time, but you can do it.

Don't judge someone's sexuality just cause some men are into makeup

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There’s parallelism between basketball fans and K-pop stans for sure. I’m sure you know of the G.O.A.T. debate. It’s similar to the “it girl” or “it boy” debate that we often come across. Both involve stats.

I agree on that second point! They often go to that extreme.

exactly which is why it's always good to keep in the back of one's mind that it's not the majority who act like that

in the grand scheme of kpop/basketball anything else really the vast majority of fans enjoy their hobby in peace and quiet and never probably once even make a comment about it online

people are nuts

Beware of the fandoms and fandom culture in general.

MissBehave making AKP great again

It hasn't taught me anything, it is just music after all.