well there you go rhe two examples you gave are most likely ugly guys (to you) but still sexy...
and remember sexiness isn't about attractiveness fhey are all separate concepts
but they're not sexy to me tho. i wouldn't do them
so that doesn't help me understand how to be sexy to guys who dont even like the way i look. thats the skill in life that i really need lol
but its ok because i went on youtube and looked up the art of how to be a sexy wamen. i'm going study up and practice lol