RE: anytime you mention a kpop idol's n-word scandal

i’ll come back to this once i find the words but you got me when you said you wasn’t black

link: anytime you mention a kpop idol's n-word scandal

i never did find those words. cause op had me flabbergastedezgif-5-30796a9ec7.gif

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? I mean they have a point? It's a valid reason

of course it's a valid reason. that's not the part i have an issue with.

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Sorry I'm a bit out of it rn, I don't understand

Can you dumb it down lol

i feel you. i’m out of it as well and idk ops whole post just feels off to me. i don’t know why. op says this and i’m just like. it’s not really their apology to accept seeing that they aren’t black but idk.

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most of the time when an idol saying the n word is brought up is during fanwars tbh

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I think I know why it seems weird, because they said they weren't black and later said that they don't accept idols apologies when it isn't even meant for them but rather the people that were actually affected by the comment. Maybe that's why it feels fishy. I think this person had a point but went at it in a very weird way

yeah it threw me all off

okay lemme see if i can get all of my thoughts out real quick

wow what an essay

now i have no issue with a black (lemme say again black) kpop stan not liking an idol for saying the n word. but when you as a non black person brings up such a thing then yeah i can see why someone who is black might get mad.

cause why are you even bringing it up in the first place when you are not the affected (effected? idk my mind is messed up) person?

to be perfectly honest, if you were to bring up not liking an idol for this said reason i would probably ignore you. idc what you as a non black person has to say about that type of situation cause it’s not yours to speak on or even bring up. and you linking this to racism also throws me off. some (some) of the times when an idol says the n word it is (sometimes) out of ignorance and that idol apologizes, some accept and others don’t. perfectly fine. this doesn’t make them racist (in my eyes anyways).

also black kpop stans can bring up the fact an idol has apologized to changed for such a thing. why not? and i kind of doubt anyone is saying you need help. and op says ppl need to stop taking things personal and meanwhile this is something that is personal?

of course no black kpop stan has to accept the apology but same time don’t attack those who do accept the apology.

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... one of the responses will be, "but namjoon"

There, finished the title!

you know he was on my mind. cause he’s the first one to be brought up by kpop stans

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I really tried to understand your point of view but it doesn't make sense to me that you think it's wrong when a white person supports a racist idol and when they don't, you also think it's wrong

IDK, perhaps i misunderstood your post but that's how i read it

IMO if you're a man you can still speak for woman's rights, same applies for cases of religious or racial discrimination

you misunderstood.

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I tried to understand what you're saying but you lost me.

Basically only black kpop stans are allowed to get mad/unstan an idol if they say an n-word and everyone else can't say its racist if the idol apologizes because the apology isn't for them? I think OOP slightly messed up when they said they didn't accept the apologies because it wasn't meant for them but at the same time, they never said they were hurt by the idols or anything. They just said that they didn't want to stan racist idols and an apology wasn't an excuse.

Also I think a lot of this is rooted in you thinking that idols saying the n-word is "ignorance" when OOP takes it as racist which I kind of agree with because most of these idols are grown media trained adults, it's 2022, most idols are various social platforms, BLM made significant waves worldwide and in Korea, and with how many people/ fellow idols get into scandals about this, there's just no way they don't know.

Maybe I'm missing what you're saying but you just sound like the type of person OOP was talking about

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yeah you missing what i’m saying, but it’s cool