It's so rare to hear group members talking so candidly about their relationship

Winner recently went on a therapist's tv show and discussed their own personal issues and their group dynamic. They talked about how they don't tend to share their emotions and things that are bothering them with each other. Mino didn't share how much he was struggling with panic disorder and Jinu didn't even tell them when his grandmother died. I feel so sad for them that they didn't seek out support from each other, but everyone is different and many people don't like to open themselves up like that. I just thought it was really interesting because so many groups like to portray a dynamic of being closer than family and super tightknit with each other and this was so different. It was actually refreshing to feel like this was so honest. They also appear to want to work on their dynamic to ensure that they will be able to stay together for the long haul which is good to see.

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MissBehave is it on youtube ?

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I saw someone had uploaded it as a clips playlist, but I think the subs are auto-generated cuz they were all kinds of wack lol

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The problem is when idols are honest nonfans and fans alike go off on them and hate them for not sticking to the make believe idol script everyone has to stick to.

I think groups that can be honest are likely alot closer to each other than those who keep feeding the fantasy.

True, people will say they can't stan a group that aren't like brothers or whatever, instead of, I dunno, stanning them for their music smh

I agree that groups that can be honest pbly have a better chance since their communication will be better

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I mean groups members are co workers at the end of the day... it's normal : in certain cases it's possible to have a great connection and in other cases it's just work and as long as people respect each other it's totally fine. I don't know much about winner but it's great that they're talking like this. Groups don't necessarily have to be "a family" and best friends (because for real, in a lot of cases this is just bs)

yup, groups start mostly as complete strangers thrown together into extraordinary circumstances. They didn't choose each other. It's unrealistic to think they will always become even friends much less family like. Then, throw in all the stress and the fact that everyone will be growing and changing during these years a lot, it only makes sense that some groups will be closer than others. A lot of the "brothers" stuff is just editing or a fan fantasy. I'm happy when groups respect each other and can enjoy each other. They don't need to be like family.

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i mean this isn't all that strange to me...like i never told any of my coworkers what happened to my uncle or about that time my mother was in the hospital the entire day and had to be revived back to life . like im just not a sharer of stuff. And im with them the whole damn day during the week.

never stanned a group for their so called bond with eachother anyway.

I mean, their work situation is different since they usually live together for years and spend way more time together and in more stressful conditions than most. But true, at the end of the day though, they're still coworkers and won't necessarily share things with each other.

And yeah, i don't stan for their dynamic either.

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even living together ub don't have to share really personal stuff despite having more opportunities to do so, i never saw my roomates when i was in college

Yep, it really just depends on how much you click. My first college roomate and I got along and hung out, but went our separate ways after the first year. For my second year, I got assigned a roommate that was basically my complete opposite. I ended up living with her for five years after college and was the maid of honor in her wedding.