There is a situation I wanna share with you guys.
It seems like some women are ok with being sexually harassed depending on the guy who is doing it.
I know a Boy ( let’s call him B here) he is the best friend of my cousin who has a lot of female friends. He isn’t close with all of them. Anyway he has the tendency to touch a lot of them in an inappropriate way, like touching their boobs or their butt in a playful or teasing manner, or he will hug them and give them kisses on the cheek etc . I catch most of them saying he should stop, but they never get mad and still hang around with him.
So yesterday one of these Girls called me ( I would say we are friends) and while we were talking, she brought up the topic sexual harassment and that there is a guy who makes her feel so uncomfortable, she doesn’t want him even near her. So because I saw what B did to her once, I thought she will talk about him, but no, she talked about a guy from her church who keeps asking her out for a date… I was a bit confused tbh..... So she feels sexually harassed by a guy who was just asking for a date, but a guy who touches her inappropriately several times without them being that close is ok ??
So I must say here that B is very popular among the Girls, quite a lot wanna date him, he makes music. He can make them do so many things for him like cooking, helping him out or driving him around, like I really don’t get it how some women let themself get treated like this.
So to cut it sort, even though some end in situations where bystanders might consider it sexual harassment, it doesn’t seem to really bother the “ victim “ if they find the perpetrator attractive...
The same applies to guys as well, I have heard guys talking about situations where a women kinda forced themself on them and even though they didn’t like it, they let it be because they thought the person was hot lol.
So much weird stuff. But I did noticed it with me too ( thankfully not even close to that degree) but when a guy you find attractive asks you out, even if you don’t want to, it feels less uncomfortable/or harassed then if someone you don’t find attractive at all ask you out.