Apparently, agencies will plan out date courses to protect their idols' secret relationships "dating management"

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Maybe it is due to your insecurity towards yourself. Believe me, the most attractive thing is confidence and self-love

I'm not insecure though? I don't care if no one wants to date me. I think you are insecure if you believe self-love is about appealing to others so they'll date you

Can somebody explain what does 'date course' mean in this context? I do understand the translation of both words but I don't get it as a whole term. Does it mean that agency plans secret dates or trips for couples? Or they teach how to wear couple items/outfits or do things like lovestagram the way fans wouldn't notice?

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I'm not insecure though? I don't care if no one wants to date me. I think you are insecure if you believe self-love is about appealing to others so they'll date you

That‘s not how it works. I know this out of experience and I have no problem dating and meeting new people. You seem insecure when you say the appearance is the only value to date someone. Also, just to mirror my phrase is pointing towards your insecurity.

Also how am I insecure when I say self-love and confidence is the key?

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That‘s not how it works. I know this out of experience and I have no problem dating and meeting new people. You seem insecure when you say the appearance is the only value to date someone. Also, just to mirror my phrase is pointing towards your insecurity.

Also how am I insecure when I say self-love and confidence is the key?

I love myself and I'm not insecure. Nobody wants to date me but that's okay since I can survive on self-love. I don't need to date in order to love myself. Dating is fun, but I won't die without it.

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I love myself and I'm not insecure. Nobody wants to date me but that's okay since I can survive on self-love. I don't need to date in order to love myself. Dating is fun, but I won't die without it.

Well, I can’t convince you but how am I them insecure if I say self-love is the key??? Explain this please

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Well, I can’t convince you but how am I them insecure if I say self-love is the key??? Explain this please

Because self-love has nothing to do with attractiveness. Guys don't care if you love or hate yourself. They just want a pretty face that does what they want.

I love myself, but since I'm not considered attractive in men's eyes, they won't love me. But it's not like I care??? My ex bf was very mean to me all the time.

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4. [+76] My problem with idols in relationships is that once they get into one, they put their job as a singer, as an idol, on the backburner, and start showing it on their faces how they don't want to be on stage or don't want to be doing fan service.

Not everyone reacts to a romantic relationship like this, but point made.

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Isn't this just going to encourage delulus?

Delulus bring in money

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I wanna say it ain't that serious but depends on the idol honestly. When momo and heechul dating news came out all I saw on my tl was nayeon driving memes so yeah. I doubt majority of kpop fans care that much about dating anymore....

No I think it depends on the timeline because all I saw on mine was Twice fans being absolutely nasty and malicious, going as far as sending death threats to Heechul and his mother.

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Because self-love has nothing to do with attractiveness. Guys don't care if you love or hate yourself. They just want a pretty face that does what they want.

I love myself, but since I'm not considered attractive in men's eyes, they won't love me. But it's not like I care??? My ex bf was very mean to me all the time.

Again, you are very shallow. There are a lot of people who are not attracted to people who are very pretty. I have friends who do not look like Gigi Hadid or like a goddess and they get enough guys. If you live with the sentiment that others might not value (which you cannot know btw or do you know 7 billion people?) you and put yourself down, that’s in fact insecurity. It’s also invalidating people’s personality and it is quite sexist to frame every guy as a stupid shallow idiot. Your ex is not the world.

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I would date as an idol a non-celebrity since they do not expose those people. But the overall problems are the fans that are overstepping their boundaries

yeah then your non celebrity partner will expose you when you piss them off

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Again, you are very shallow. There are a lot of people who are not attracted to people who are very pretty. I have friends who do not look like Gigi Hadid or like a goddess and they get enough guys. If you live with the sentiment that others might not value (which you cannot know btw or do you know 7 billion people?) you and put yourself down, that’s in fact insecurity. It’s also invalidating people’s personality and it is quite sexist to frame every guy as a stupid shallow idiot. Your ex is not the world.

my standards in men are too high. and those hot men never go for me. but it doesn't bother me, since dating isn't a very important part of life

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yeah then your non celebrity partner will expose you when you piss them off

N/DA and not being a piece of shit helps