Eman's Guide To Enjoying Survival Shows
Since Girls Planet is airing and we're in the midst of an exciting and emotional journey to a brand new girl group, I thought I'd give some tips on how to enjoy these things without going crazy.
Tip #1:
Have A Practical Pick
I know everyone has their heart set on their favorite girl that they want to debut. But maybe consider selecting a second favorite. A "practical pick".
By this I mean choose a favorite who seems to be one of the shows favorites. A girl who is getting high votes. And seems to be getting favored treatment on the show.
This allows you to have someone you're rooting for with a high chance of making it.
Tip # 2:
Get Out Of A "X Deserves " Mindset
If you start down this path of focusing too heavily on a "she deserves it" mindset, it can have a tendency to make you resentful or angry when picks you don't value get attention or votes or star treatment.
I see people from time to time downplaying others favorites and popular picks that they don't understand or agree with. Picks they don't think deserve it.
"She's just a visual pick." "They just vote for her because if X". "She doesn't deserve to debut because of X"
Realize there's a multitude of ways to approach picking girls for a girl Group.
And getting worked up on others valuing things differently then you will only make you feel bad.
Try to focus on positively praising your own picks. Rather than on why others' picks are wrong.
I promise you'll feel better.
Tip # 3:
Hype Your Favs
Related to #2 above.
Channel your energy and emotion into promoting and hyping your own favorites.
Not only does this help get your favs exposure and attention. But it keeps you focused on a positive activity. Being positive helps you enjoy something.
Tip # 4:
Be Realistic
This is hard. I know.
Everyone wants their dream team to make it.
But it's a survival show.
And realistically you're dream team will probably not make it exactly how you want.
Hope for them. But keep a measured hope.
Maybe focus on getting a few of your favs in rather then the perfect team.
Tip 1 can help with this.
Tip # 5:
Breathe
Sometimes we forget. This is kpop. It's supposed to be an enjoyable activity and hobby.
Realize at the end of the day you can't control who makes it in completely.
Realize it's not the end of the world if things don't go out as you planned.
There's more kpop here for you to enjoy. And ultimately lives are not ruined by not making a group.
All these girls will find there way in life. Even if they don't get into this group.
Feel sad for those that didn't make it. Feel happy for those that do.
And make sure to breathe.
It's a show. Have fun.
That's all! Enjoy the show!