Ex-Gf speaks out on AOA Mina’s posts

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    These are the translations of the original naver posts (the translations seems about right).


    The ex-gf spoke up for herself and seems like what’s presented from Mina doesn’t seem to add up.


    Thought it’s fair to have her side of the story. The ex-gf doesn’t sound exactly how Mina portrayed her to be.

    Once (main), Blink & Fearnot

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    who the fuck cares? Honestly? Who?

    If anyone cares they not only have never been in a break-up or they never had a relationship to begin with.

    Life is not in black & white. Several tons of shades of gray are in the middle.

    I had girlfriends who cheated on me a ton. Heck I even had one that screwed my best friend at her birthday party.


    It's their own business, and the only reason this is posted is so they can gather clout and likes.

    Grow up please!

    Hmm not everything is clout. They are probably pissed af for their friend and wanted justice.

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    Quote from invstor099

    Hmm not everything is clout. They are probably pissed af for their friend and wanted justice.

    Justice? Over what?

    Her boyfriend choosing the "celebrity" over their friend?

    Everybody is treating that one like an outcast or a whore because she liked him even if he was in a relationship.

    His dick chose her, so let's not blame the "poor boy" who was led astray by a minx female.


    Do not get me wrong, I don't give two fucks about Mina. She needs therapy and a ton of it.

    But at the same time, that guy ain't some innocent angel lead into falling because of a woman.

    He's a player. Plain and simple.

    Dude’s a player that’s for sure. The problem here is that neither him or Mina is the innocent party, and the actual victim is the ex-gf who was cheated on.


    It’s also more than Mina liking the guy. Isn’t there a code to back off not to touch another bro or sis partner if they are attached?


    The problem was being chosen over but cheated on and I think is 2 different things? Besides if the after-sex (looks like it) picture is uploaded to insta I mean if she was my friend I would want to punch him too.

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    Quote from invstor099

    Dude’s a player that’s for sure. The problem here is that neither him or Mina is the innocent party, and the actual victim is the ex-gf who was cheated on.


    It’s also more than Mina liking the guy. Isn’t there a code to back off not to touch another bro or sis partner if they are attached?


    The problem was being chosen over but cheated on and I think is 2 different things? Besides if the after-sex (looks like it) picture is uploaded to insta I mean if she was my friend I would want to punch him too.

    Yeah that pic was deffo an after-sex pic.


    Don't get me wrong. I get it. Both of them are the guilty party here.

    But it's cheating, not murder. Let's be fair here.


    Also about the code...That doesn't exist mate. It really doesn't. Hormones and alcohol do whatever they want.

    Then I would get hurt if my gf does cheat on me. I make choices not to do alcohol and avoid temptations. I don’t want my r/s to be on the basis of hormones and alcohol, because I believe r/s is built on trust.


    I saw what cheating did to someone I know personally and it destroyed her, and she sunk into depression, went into a pit. It really depends on how much one loves the partner too.


    If it’s a fling or non-serious r/s the impact doesn’t matter. But situation might change if it’s a 3-year long serious r/s (and going into longer commitment like marriage).

    Once (main), Blink & Fearnot

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    Quote from invstor099

    Then I would get hurt if my gf does cheat on me. I make choices not to do alcohol and avoid temptations. I don’t want my r/s to be on the basis of hormones and alcohol, because I believe r/s is built on trust.


    I saw what cheating did to someone I know personally and it destroyed her, and she sunk into depression, went into a pit. It really depends on how much one loves the partner too.


    If it’s a fling or non-serious r/s the impact doesn’t matter. But situation might change if it’s a 3-year long serious r/s (and going into longer commitment like marriage).

    and honestly mate? From this reply you can't be older than 20, heck even 16.

    Life doesn't work like that. You'll see what I mean when you hit 40.

    I might be jaded as fuck, but the honest truth is that people cheat.

    ALL THE TIME.

    With a friend, with a boss, because they are bored, because they are horny, because they are drunk etc etc etc


    Also as a piece of advice, don't get hurt if they cheat. Get even.

    One of my exes screwed around so I screwed her sister. Another screwed my best friend so I screwed her cousin.

    Karma does mean balancing after all :wink:

    Why isn't she talking to the boyfriend? All of this seems like an attack to Mina, but the one who cheated on her was her boyfriend, so she should be talking if she feels unfair or whatever to him, not her? As long as I know, Mina was in no relationship with her, and they were also not close friends or anything to be loyal to their friendship.


    If Mina liked him and she played her chance it should have been the boyfriend, (if he actually loved her) the one who should've say: "No, I don't want to, I already have a girlfriend" but he didn't. The anger should be towards him and not her.


    At least that's what I've been told about relationships.

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    To me, i don’t really care that she got into a relationship with a shitty guy (if she doesnt gave a problem with being with a cheater who am I to judge) but its the lying and exaggerating of facts that i have a problem with and no one is allowed to call her out on it because of her mental issues. She said that the guy and her got together after a long time but it was at most two weeks, she said the father cursed and sent her and the guy death threats but it was just to the guy and it hardly was a death threat. I will believe her that the guy probably told her he broke up with the gf but she knows that is not the case now and there were all the proofs provided that that wasnt the case yet she still doubled down to defend the guy.

    To me reading this just confirms these two (the ex-gf and the guy) had some difficulties communicating, leading to misunderstanding. He told her to take some time apart because they're too different, he took it as a break up, she took it less seriously. He wrote "I'm sorry I'll try to feel better" talking about the break up, she took it as confirmation of not breaking up. Problem is he didn't communicate himself clearly and directly enough to avoid misunderstandings, she put too much hopes into the thing making her misinterpret those signals. A pretty common thing though, nothing to see here worthy of hordes of strangers following it as some spectacle.

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    Quote from Dubucub

    Why isn't she talking to the boyfriend? All of this seems like an attack to Mina, but the one who cheated on her was her boyfriend, so she should be talking if she feels unfair or whatever to him, not her? As long as I know, Mina was in no relationship with her, and they were also not close friends or anything to be loyal to their friendship.


    If Mina liked him and she played her chance it should have been the boyfriend, (if he actually loved her) the one who should've say: "No, I don't want to, I already have a girlfriend" but he didn't. The anger should be towards him and not her.


    At least that's what I've been told about relationships.

    You're completely right mate. She didn't cheat, he did.

    Simple as that.

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    lmao so petty. She got dumped and cant move own. Yawn...

    How did you know? Did you even read what she posted? It looked like you didn't.

    She called him her ex and did not contact him anymore meaning she had decided he was the past and she would move on.

    How old are you? Life doesn't work like that. Emotion is irrelevant to logic. You may hit 50 or 60 and still hurt that you're cheated. The cheated gets hurt ALL THE TIME.


    Also, as a piece of advice, that revenge relationship idea is so childish and can bring you into a messier situation.


    And, if you seriously don't care, don't reply.

    Quote from Dubucub

    Why isn't she talking to the boyfriend? All of this seems like an attack to Mina, but the one who cheated on her was her boyfriend, so she should be talking if she feels unfair or whatever to him, not her? As long as I know, Mina was in no relationship with her, and they were also not close friends or anything to be loyal to their friendship.


    If Mina liked him and she played her chance it should have been the boyfriend, (if he actually loved her) the one who should've say: "No, I don't want to, I already have a girlfriend" but he didn't. The anger should be towards him and not her.


    At least that's what I've been told about relationships.

    Because it's hurt for her to have a conversation with him? Besides, she had been aware that her relationship with the boyfriend could not be restored anyway.


    She had all the right to call out Mina's lies. The boyfriend's story already was debunked by Mina so, nothing to call out. Also, her story told the boyfriend's shitty personality so, it was an attack on both Mina and the boyfriend.


    It takes 2 to tango. Being mistress is definitely a sin unless the first wife is consent. To do something knowing it will hurt innocent someone cannot be right. This is what your parents should have taught you about relationship.

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    I'll just address my part.

    I'm almost 40, been in a lot of relationships and been with even more women.

    Most of whom were in a relationship.

    I'm an arsehole, therefor I can identify an ass male.


    But yes, you are right, revenge sex is childish. But it feels so good.


    Also, being a mistress is not a sin. There is no wife in this story.

    Therefore there is no mistress. Those two were not married.

    Quote from bzzz

    Because it's hurt for her to have a conversation with him? Besides, she had been aware that her relationship with the boyfriend could not be restored anyway.


    She had all the right to call out Mina's lies. The boyfriend's story already was debunked by Mina so, nothing to call out. Also, her story told the boyfriend's shitty personality so, it was an attack on both Mina and the boyfriend.


    It takes 2 to tango. Being mistress is definitely a sin unless the first wife is consent. To do something knowing it will hurt innocent someone cannot be right. This is what your parents should have taught you about relationship.

    So it hurts to have a mature conversation with him to settle things and move on with their lives but not expose someone's private life to everyone? Get cheated on is horrible, but sadly, she is not going to be the first or the last.


    I don't know about the lies, so if Mina told another story that doesn't add up at all, then well, yes she should settle her side of the story, I'm not too informed on that topic, sorry.


    Also, I don't see it like that, if she liked him, then of course she would try to be with him. It may not have been right, but It's still the boyfriend responsability to cut ties with her if it's something he doesn't want to. Again, she was in no relationship, if the girlfriend ended up hurt, it's the boyfriend fault because he is the one that cheated on her.
    If he didn't want to continue the relationship because he found another person, he should have said it before going with the other girl, but again, this is the boyfriend's responsability.

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