Is It Okay To View A Idol As Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend?

You need help

No, that's really weird mate they don't even know you exist bro imagine claiming being something that you aren't

if you're doing this beyond the age of like, 8, then it's time to get some help

it is cringe

but i am worst than u when it comes to my fave. but i can't help myself. Save your own soul before its too late.

people are calling you a troll ( which you probably are ) but thats exactly how a lot of kpop fans i know think

fun part is, its mostly a MASSIVE cope

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again im not a troll💀

I just post whatever I want, and I don't care if people are mad or find it "sensitive" lmao.

Im on here for me, and me only.

if people think im a troll because I say stuff I want or joke a lot, then I guess lol

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makes sense

anyway if you cant get someone irl then feel free to fantasize whoever you want

just as long as it does not hurt them

No

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The right answer

Yohoo!

Did i win something?

No. I understand the painted image and fans they are trying to sell in Kpop. But don't eat it. So don't get too caught up. In kpop, try to follow only groups whose music and performances you like. So don't get too carried away. Yes kpop is very eye catching but in the end you are just a fan. Idols aren't perfect either, by the way, in real life most of them are grumpy and dissatisfied people. Yes, they make themselves look modest, but that's how they are at the professional workplace. So think that they are not perfect, they have reached there by sacrificing a lot. There is no such thing as perfect in real life. Kpop sells its all-perfect image very well. Either you want to be like them or you are deceived and become an obsessive fan. Don't be too invested before too late.

That's not a healthy behavior.

Even if it's not in an obsessive way, it still counts as a parasocial relationship.

Be careful.

the issue isn't having such thoughts but rather how those thoughts manifest into actions

there are people with such thoughts that borderline on stalker and other sasaeng behaviour (not saying you are OP)

there are people with such thoughts but carry on their everyday business as normal

it's the same thing as having fantasies or being jealous or whatever - if those thoughts become actions then it becomes problematic but if it's in your head and it's not hurting anyone who cares...

rain was my husband for a decade until he cheated on me. we divorced. then he remarried to some random chick.