What’s your opinions of 30s male idols/actors dating women in their 20s

Depends on it

I mean when for example Heechul and Momo were a thing for a hot second I almost was happy for them ... till all the people begun to shit on Heechul for that

On one hand, they're right. Older men do date women way younger than them because they have less world experience than women their same age. And thus easier to manipulate and gaslight women that young because they don't know their situation can be better or worse. But to play devil's advocate and defend men ( ) the girls are also consenting adults who wanted or looked for older men to date. It's a two-way street of consenting adults. Whatever the consequences of that fall solely on compatibility.

Wait, but why is this in the kpop section?

20s is such a large spectrum. Like there's a huge difference in maturity between 21 and 27. Also woman in their late 20s dating a man in their early 30s is socially accepted everywhere.

Honestly its not my business

But dicaprio is a creep and i have no respect for him

no problem
that common dating age gap or couple gap
among w successful career

my perception is

as the male got older

they got more serious in life more into family
and w more stable career /bigger income

w that age it perfect time a man
to date and finding their ideal girl

How do you even find some Tweet with zero likes, retweets or replies from a month back to build some post discussing strangers' private lives around it

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no problem
that common dating age gap or couple gap
among w successful career

my perception is

as the male got older

they got more serious in life more into family
and w more stable career /bigger income

w that age it perfect time a man
to date and finding their ideal girl

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But there is allways issues with it, especially when the age gap is super big

A former member of the JPop-group AKB48 for example recently got married to a guy who is 20+ years older than her and everyone was super super super feeling suspicious about this since the girl was also only like 23 years old and her husband is almost 50

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People are speaking up more about it more, but strangely kpop fans are avoiding this question because a lot of their 2nd gen male biases are already in their 30s.

It’s being called out for the imbalance of power, potential for predatory behaviors and grooming. Imagine how many idols debut very young while working alongside much older people in the industry. For example, Joy is in her 20s and she’s dating a 30yo man. Hyeri is in her 20s and is dating a 36yo man. Not to mention these late 20s/30s year old male idols promoting and still trying to get new younger fans.

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Would you still stan your 30s male bias if he dated a woman in her 20s or even 18 or 19 year old?

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there would be a problem if they were in their 30's and dating a 19-18 year old...20 up that's their choice who they wanna date and how old they are and if you have a problem with your bias dating someone who is late 4th gen while they are 2nd gen then thats a you problem

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But there is allways issues with it, especially when the age gap is super big

A former member of the JPop-group AKB48 for example recently got married to a guy who is 20+ years older than her and everyone was super super super feeling suspicious about this since the girl was also only like 23 years old and her husband is almost 50

ah

I think

I read that article
it in asianjunkie - jpop section

that is their own life choice
we can't interfere that..
the girl is already 23 she can have own decision
especially we as an outsider

I can't see a problem with it as long as they're compatible.

Up to them, not my business

Most people that I know irl wouldn’t even be bothered by an everyday couple having that much of an age gap and grooming can happen in those situations as well. Why is it such a conversation starter when the people involved are idols?