Do you ever feel embarrassed when asking or wanting help?
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Yes.
I always feel like I'm a burden when I need to ask for help because I know others have their own sets of problems, and the very last thing they probably want or need is me bothering them with problems that aren't their own.
Friends have pointed out to me, that I myself don't mind helping them and so shouldn't worry about asking for help in return... but I can't help but feel that that's different. My problems never seem as serious as theirs, and I feel like others are just more capable in general, so if they ask me for help it's not the same and won't reflect as poorly on them as it would me if our positions were reversed.
I'm probably doing a terrible job trying to explain this...
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Yes.
I always feel like I'm a burden when I need to ask for help because I know others have their own sets of problems, and the very last thing they probably want or need is me bothering them with problems that aren't their own.
Friends have pointed out to me, that I myself don't mind helping them and so shouldn't worry about asking for help in return... but I can't help but feel that that's different. My problems never seem as serious as theirs, and I feel like others are just more capable in general, so if they ask me for help it's not the same and won't reflect as poorly on them as it would me if our positions were reversed.
I'm probably doing a terrible job trying to explain this...
No I get what u mean I felt that way before too
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And now there's chat gpt
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especially being considered the "smart person" thru-ought most of my current school life, i can't really ask for help bcs people always try to ask me then the teacher
it's really hard & i rarely ask if it's smth small &almost never ask for help
i usually just get it by myself slowly or just manage snth
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