Posts by ohohcollinBB

  • Seo Yeji's agency releases official statement !!! SHOCKING!!!

    Quote from Straw_berry

    You don't know anything about about me and what I went through for you to pass that judgement. You should stay quiet. As long the abuse was not physical or blackmailing, both parties have the choices to walk away. Learn to take ownership of your mistakes.


    He was interfering with work. The crew couldn't fire him and find a replacement? It sounds like a bad business to me. As for Seohyun, I'm sorry that she went through job stress, but I'm sure she's a much stronger person now.


    Anyways. Good bye.

    Im fucking sick and tired of people like you. Being a decent human isnt even a basic requirement these days it seems and theres always people like you who try to keep this freaking world toxic by excusing behavior like this because "people arent perfect". Yeah as someone who lived trough a shit ton of mental and physical abuse all my childhood and as someone who had a shit ton of people like you around me who excused what was done to me for years because apparently "people dont act 100% right all the time" like you say, Im fucking done with crap like that. I dont fucking care what they did in private but at this point its more than obvious that they abused a shit ton of other people around them, both of them, and even for that you find excuses.

    No I dont know you personally but trough those few words of you I know more than enough about you now to lose all respect for you and your opinion.

    Now, goodbye.

  • What's your family life like?

    Meh. My parents are both narcissistics and my dad is most likely a psychopath and they are overall toxic so growing up in this household was pretty stressful throughout my whole childhood. To the point where it wasnt that far off from death tbh.

    Overall my parents regard their own children as a possession first and foremost to say it shortly.

    I generally keep communication to them to a minimum because talking more than 5min with them will most likely result in a pretty horrible outcome.

    Me and my sister had the potential to be close but we didnt. I think growing up the way we did has two possible outcomes: you either become very close in order to be allies in such an environment or you get crushed down and grow apart. We grew apart. Shes been pretty aggressive, moody and depressed as far back as I can remember. The thing is though that I can sometimes see how much different she could have become if she could have had a different life. Sometimes it shines trough.

    I always envied kids who had a genuinely close and loving bond with their parents for that reason.

    So in the future should I have a family I really want to make it into a warm and safe space. Yeah I guess thats all??

  • Seo Yeji's agency releases official statement !!! SHOCKING!!!

    Quote from Straw_berry

    So I guess I'm a little sick with all these judgements. So some of you live in this "perfectly healthy" relationship and act 100% right all the time? Let's not lie through our teeth now. Honestly, whatever happened in their relationship is their own personal matter. She didn't physically abuse him. He's a grown ass man who chose to obey her requests, and likewise. They both had choices to leave each other, but chose not to. They're both attractive and successful ppl who can get dates and other needs at a snap of their fingers. Also, it happened years ago? Seriously, some of ya'll act like they both are murderer or something.


    In term of their unprofessionalism, the filming crew couldn't replace them? There are sea of actors and actresses who are as fitting for the job. These actors are being paid by the company to do their jobs and not the other way around. If they are unprofessional to their jobs, they just won't be hired in the future.


    The ways you guys are condemning these two individuals are as horrible. What's even more horrible is how Dispatch can easily release all these personal chat logs (bullies cases, relationship affair, etc) and divert everyone's attention.

    Ah yeah the narcissists and psychos are all coming out. Trying to excuse the crap they pulled because you did or could see yourself doing the same?

    He treated Seohyun like crap, made the writer of the drama literally redo the script on a hospital bed, created useless problems for the whole crew, Seo Ye Ji was a school bully it seems (rumors like this appeared as far back as 2014 and are now becoming headlines and based on what came out about her it suddenly doesnt seem that unlikely) and you are fucking trying to find excuses here?

    The only morally wrong part here is dispatch leakimg private things, but it is what it is now.

    Honestly, just shut up.

    You dont even know what it feels like to be a victim of toxic people like that.

  • Favourite Kdrama/K-movie characters?

    Both leads from Strong Woman Do Bong Soon are probably my favorite kdrama characters of all time.

    Quite a few kdrama characters out there would actually be seen as pretty toxic people in real life.

    Those two definitely didnt have that. They where both written as pretty sweet and lovable characters tbh, without them being boring in my opinion. They wherent without flaws, I dont want to imply them being perfect, but yeah you know what I mean. Plus I think the combination of them both just really made them even better.

    I would even rewtach this kdrama, even though motherfucking Jisoo is the second male lead. Thats how good that pair was.

  • Kim Jung Hyun is not at fault if what dispatch reveal is right.

    I might not have been in an abusive relationship, but my parents are both narcissists and my dad is also most likely a psychopath, so really its not that far off how I had to grow up compared to being in an abusive relationship.

    And let me tell you one thing, no matter how controlling someone in your life is, at the end everything you do is still your own choice.

    I have lived like that and yes it is fucking scary and absolutely mentally draining to always have to hide the smallest things and restrain yourself from very normal stuff just to not offend another person who basically thinks they own you. Yall can believe me that I absolutely get it.

    So I do think that we might cut him some slack. Its not an easy position to be in and I would not view him as 100% at fault if everything is true.

    At the same time I would also never lift him of all blame. At the end of the day he still chose his own convenience above the mental wellbeing of people who did not have anything to do with their toxic relationship to begin with, and other people where hurt because of that and had to pay the price.


    You guys should stop viewing all victims as helpless babies who stop having any control over their life. Its not like that.

  • Do you believe in ghosts,spirits, etc?

    Quote from Sara-M

    I think this exact same way :thumbup:

    I always try to convince people in my life and no one ever believes me. So much stuff happened in my life in the last 2 years that was absolutely unlikely to ever happen and it still did that I just started to be convinced that something isnt right out there. Thats how people in the nuthouse must feel. You keep on blabbering something and everyone just tells you "yeah yeah" and then they give you your medicine and think youre insane.

  • Why majority of bands have males playing instruments instead females?

    Yesterday I read that one reddit post by a user who was contemplating quitting music because the industry is so toxic, competitive and draining. Basically you practice/play your instrument 20+ hours a week and the result is still that you are very unlikely to find success. Like the user above said I can imagine that women might be far less likely to be willing to do something like this because of emotional exhaustion too.



    I also believe that women are far more likely to seek something safe than men. Its kind of in our genes, men went hunting and could die any day, women where gathering food and where responsible for children. Because women are the party who is far more responsible for the offsprings they often seek safer employment options and generally live safer. The livehood of the next generation almost always depends on the wellbeing of the female. I believe that even most women who dont have children wont be able to completely shake off that evolutionary mindset. It has to be imprinted somewhere in us, otherwise I would not be able to explain why its mostly men doing extreme sports and doing risky investments. If you want to do music then being the frontman/singer is the safest place because you are far more likely to be the one member whose name will be known. How many bands do you know where you can name the main singer but dont know the names of the others? Probably a lot. A situation like the Beatles where even the drummer is world famous is very rare. Another thing is that once a band is known to a certain degree usually the singer is the last member who would be kicked out. You can find a new guitarist or drummer, but the voice of your frontman/woman is what you cant replace because your listeners will be used to it. So its the position thats most set in stone. Also I think that singers of relatively known bands are the members that are most likely to be asked by other people in the industry to participate in their songs. So yeah singing is thw safest place you can have in virtually any band.


    Another thing is that men are generally far more free to choose their path in life or being permitted to screw areound in their late teens/20s then women. Even in 2021. I can definitely see that many families would not like to see their daughters choosing such a path in life. Many bands start their band life in pretty sketchy bars, have to give gigs all around the country based on where they can find anyoje who wants to take them in, etc and I can definitely see that many females would be discouraged to be in a band while the son in the same family could be given a free pass.

  • SHIZZ IS REALLY HITTING THE FAN IN CHINA...ARE YOUR FAVES AFFECTED?

    Quote from inspike

    I just find it extremely hypocritical to criticize idols for "saving their career over gross human right violations", while their own faves are doing exactly the same thing by promoting in the US.


    Let's not talk about how many hundreds of thousands of Muslims the US has killed in the last 20 years and are still dropping bomb onto till this day, supporting Saudi Arabia's genocide in Yemen with weapons, and let's also conveniently ignore all the shit they did in Latin America, and to the migrant children down at the border.


    I am not here to tell you to stop criticizing China & Chinese idols and their choices, I am just here to call out the hypocrisy and how little the average kpop fan understand about real world events.

    Uuuuhm you are aware that promoting somewhere has nothing to do with actually supporting said government? When celebrities promote and perform in certain countries they do it for their fans living there. Usually they dont go around publishing letters of support for xxx government. You are just trying to twist this thing into a direction that doesnt even make sense. Just because you step foot into a country with shit politics its not the same as posting full fledged letters of support for said government full of lies.