i can completely see your point because when i was younger too i would chat guys who were older and they didn't know i was underaged i have always liked older guys so that's why i did it,
Hate to break it to you but it's not that hard to realise a girl is way too young. They were just into it because it made you easier to manipulate.
older guys are so much better honestly
but well considering most of the people must be 16yo at best they don't know all this things yet x)
Absolutely no one in their right mind and over 25 consider 50+ yrs old dudes openly lusting after 20- yrs old women to be worthy of any sort of respect.