Posts by hagiri
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He used to be my favorite 17 member but if he really did all of this, f*ck him.
Bullying the disabled and sexually harassing others is pure evil, age doesn't even excuse it.
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people see what they want to see.
It's easier to judge me than to believe
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The dating news and Jennie's name are currently out-trending the sexual assault scandal on news portals. I'm speechless
Dispatch knew what they were doing with this... It's disgusting.
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Please tell me Dispatch didn't literally say Gd's house was the ideal place for them to have sex....
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All the recent cases have been pretty blurry and confusing, with a lot of them turning out to be fake. So I won't side with either the accused or the alleged victims until there's a clear conclusion to all of this.
But, tbh, the amount of inanities that have been posted these past few days, with people downplaying bullying as a whole and implying victims are pathetic losers for still being traumatized years later, is quite shocking.
It's pretty funny too to see that the victim is apparently the one that must reach out to their bullies if they want closure, instead of the bullies going out of their way to apologize to the ones they've wronged.
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I wouldn't, not because I forgave them, but simply because I don't think I'll have the courage or mental strenght to be harassed by fans, called a liar, or let the people who are the most important to me realize they failed their own kid and weren't able to be here in the most painful period of her life.
However, I support the victims who decide to speak out. God knows how traumatising it can be.
If you ever want to be a celebrity, perhaps you should start keeping tabs on your own actions. If you truly regret what you did, maybe try and seek out your victims to apologize? That's the least you could do, whether you're genuine or not.
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We need the menu
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Depends on what kind of bullying we're talking to. Not every bullying case is gonna leave scars for life. So from a neutral point of view, I have no reason to assume every bullying case reported in the social media is of tremendous consequence. I myself had to deal with something that could be seen as some mild bullying during my middle school days. I didn't oppose much resistance at first as I didn't want to make a ruckus. But when I had enough, I had enough. I said it straight to that person's face and it was over. I hold no hard feelings about it.
Glad for you that you found strenght to bite back and that your bullying was over that easily. Unfortunately, that's not the case for a huge number.
Bullying cases aren't equal on their gravity, and some people might have found a better way to cope and push the incidents out of their mind.
I'm not saying that all these reported cases are of great gravity either, but generalising all the potential victims with such a bold statement is of bad taste (at least, that's how your comment came across). People aren't all blessed to be so strong mentally.
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I agree with the fact that cancelling a whole adult for what they did when they were young teens ain't it. People change and reflect, a lot spend years hating their past selves as well. If they are genuinely regretting it (tho, unfortunately, a growth in character won't necessarily make the victims' trauma go away), I don't see why they wouldn't deserve a second chance.
(As long as what they did wasn't on the scale of straight up physical or sexual violence.)
But what you're saying here is fucked up as well. Bullying impacts one's self esteem and life greatly, no matter when it took place and how many years went by since the events. I don't see how someone being too shy, or even "weak", makes them sore losers when you take in account the psychological damage they may have gone through.
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Seems like a couple of idols names have been trending on pann ever since JBG's expose... I sincerely hope its not another case of witch hunting
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They really did great and were having so much fun on stage too
Hopefully they gain more recognition afterwards
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I hope he didn’t word it that way because it can possibly irritate China. He sounded like China needs Korea to be big. Just take slow steps LSM.. China is slowing opening up to kpop again, don’t make them shut it again.
And Culture Technology is really his thing, right? I don’t even know what that means
Cnetzs are pissed lol, "China must open its doors to Korea once again" was trending on Weibo.
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Is it me or are Yeontan's and Kuma's visuals low-key out shining Tae's and Jen's in these gifs
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We will play together
Yes bestie
The sexual tension in here
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Yall should give it up to God already
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Is this the new tag list? Could I get added please
