What people don’t understand about bullying

  • Bullying doesn’t have to be an identity. It’s primarily an action. Someone can be kind, friendly, giving to 99.9% of people that they meet but be a horrible bully to a single person.


    Being a bully in the past doesn’t mean they stopped abusing people in the present or that they will always be bullies.


    People can’t change who they are but they can change their mindset and habits.

  • I'm not justifying bullying. I was bullied myself.


    A lot of school bullying occurs because of lack of maturity and punishment. Lots of children and teenagers don't understand the consequences of their actions and don't reason about it. Also, they face light punishment when they are caught (just some verbal warning, detention or suspension, which doesn't impact much their lives). Adults have a better understanding of right and wrong and are also subject to criminal and civil charges in the cases of physical bullying and/or defamation depending on the country.


    So yes, they may have become better people after becoming adults. But there are also plenty of shitty adults, so they may be the same or even worse.

  • Yall will yell at me I know, but honestly in most cases I dont believe in second chances.

    Fuck I had such a shitty childhood and didnt even think for one second in my life of bullying someone. And then people come up with their "these children probably live in an abusive household or are emotionally neglected" excuses. Yeah. So so many people living shitty lives can control themselves and then there are those who cant and we are supposed to give them a second chance? Then they can keep on living their life of glitz and glam, earn their money and be loved by millions? Because they where caught and said sorry one time? Because lets be honest, majority of those people just bury that part of their life until someone digs it up again. If its proven that you where a bully, then fuck you. You willingly abused a person for such a long period of time and the victims will probably have to live with some of the consequences forever. Some scars will never be able to heal fully.

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