i dont have any friends where I live and in school only one but she lives far away so I go out with a friend or meet a friend like once a month. Everyone that lives in my super small village is one of my former bullies. I don't have any shops near, not even somewhere to get groceries. And ever since tons of immigrants are here, weird things happened and I'm scared to go outside (what should I even go outside for anyways). My only friend who is also my cousin is moving to Indonesia to her family soon and it's 8 hour time difference from where I live.
I'm so lonely and sad
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Maybe you can spend more time doing your hobbies? You're very talented at art maybe you can practice drawing/painting etc.
Or maybe you can find more hobbies? Do you like anime, gaming, reading, or etc?
Definitely spend less time on akp and online. Spending time online messes up your dopamine reward system and if you are feeling more unhappy recently maybe it's because you are spending more time on akp.
Remember you still have so much time to find friends in college, uni work etc I'm sure you will find great friends soon in your life
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And ever since tons of immigrants are here, weird things happened and I'm scared to go outside
I'm sorry that's the case where I live immigrants are peaceful I'm an immigrant myself it's sad this is not the case everywhere
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Im going to pretend like you didnt make that comment about immigrants. It's okay if you dont have any friends in grade school. This is only the beginning to your life.
Try to look for more opportunities to move out of your small village and into a big city where you can meet so many people like for college. -
Im going to pretend like you didnt make that comment about immigrants. It's okay if you dont have any friends in grade school. This is only the beginning to your life.
Try to look for more opportunities to move out of your small village and into a big city where you can meet so many people like for college.I am not saying that immigrants are bad and I'm sorry if you feel offended now. Part of my family are immigrants as well. It's just that these people are different, at least where I live. They are really violent towards loads of people here (not all of them ofc)
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I have a lot, but its very different from having irl friends
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I'm sorry that's the case where I live immigrants are peaceful I'm an immigrant myself it's sad this is not the case everywhere
At my place, they are from regions that are heavily impacted by wars (Iran, Iraq etc.) and are mostly men aged 20-30. A lot of them are violent towards the people here, and some of them stare at me in a weird way (But this doesn't have to do anything with them being immigrants, I have this issue with a lot of people here)
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hmmm...well I don't where you live my friend or how old you are...
normal places to find friends
school?
work?
hobbies?
social groups?
clubs/pubs/local hangout?
impossible, I cant say much about my school (im afraid anyone here finds out who I am lol) but its almost impossible
i don't go to work yet
My hobbies are things i do alone
no social groups
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impossible, I cant say much about my school (im afraid anyone here finds out who I am lol) but its almost impossible
i don't go to work yet
My hobbies are things i do alone
no social groups
to young for thatyou don't have to tell me what school you go to but do you not have friends at school?
obviously at that age (14) most friends are from school so what are the hobbies or interests of your school peers?
what are those alone hobbies? hell you're on a kpop forum so is kpop a hobby of yours?
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I don't have much school friends, because they don't have any except for having a crush, making out with their crush and talking about boys.
My biggest hobby is writing, I am also interested in reading, philosophy, classical music, art, graphic design and photography.
K-Pop is a hobby of mine, but I don't tell anyone, because I am embarrassed about it, and all the K-Pop fans I know have very different interests and all their opinions are based on tiktok and twitter.
But K-Pop is just one of the genres I like, I prefer classical music tbh.
I'm just here on AKP because of the people, and bc I am bored (and I also like collecting akorns for badges to make my account aesthetic)
It's just, I have so much goals in life (publishing my Novel at 14, studying at Oxford University) and everyone my age doesn't care about archiving anything or getting smarter. -
how about talking to your teachers about it? I'm not sure if your school, was similar to mine (back when I was in middle school) but the teachers had like this little events in their classrooms during lunch where you could meet people and make friends. The teachers organized this types of events for the kids that well were loners or were new and wanted friends. You seem like a go getter from what you describe your goals in life are, I feel like if you were to start talking to some of your classmates a bit more, you might find someone with similar passions and interests.
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I don't have much school friends, because they don't have any except for having a crush, making out with their crush and talking about boys.
My biggest hobby is writing, I am also interested in reading, philosophy, classical music, art, graphic design and photography.
K-Pop is a hobby of mine, but I don't tell anyone, because I am embarrassed about it, and all the K-Pop fans I know have very different interests and all their opinions are based on tiktok and twitter.
But K-Pop is just one of the genres I like, I prefer classical music tbh.
I'm just here on AKP because of the people, and bc I am bored (and I also like collecting akorns for badges to make my account aesthetic)
It's just, I have so much goals in life (publishing my Novel at 14, studying at Oxford University) and everyone my age doesn't care about archiving anything or getting smarter.so what you're saying is all the girls in your school are standard teenage "immature" girl types?
and no one in your school or your area has any of those similiar hobbies???
understandable but don't be afraid to open up to your hobbies and interests you never know who you might be able to connect with
hmmm...some good goals - study hard my friend
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