I hate how tours have become this dick measuring contest in which I personally engage as well. But I'd never attend one personally. It is a really bad experience. Visibility sucks, sound quality sucks, the getting into and getting out of experience sucks.
Arenas are much better but I'd say even those ain't perfect.
The best way to experience a concert is in the actual concert halls, opera and theatres with couple of thousand capacity. They are perfectly engineered with sound quality and acoustics in mind. Literally any seat you get in these is a good seat
But of course, "hurr durr, my fave and less than 10k?? get the anti company hashtags ready" is strong within our community