What are the red flags that you look for in friendships/relationships?
Red Flags🚩
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If you're the only one that starts a conversation.
Or if they only reach out to you if they need something or need help.
Friendships and relationships are two way streets. Both people need to want to put in the effort into it for it to work.
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Idk, I haven't really though about it because I don't like the concept of red flags. Like no human's perfect, and people have flaws. It's a bit of an overexaggeration to label flaws as red flags yk?
That bein said I echo Horizon, for a relationship to work both people need to put in the effort. If somebody's being lazy and neglectful, yeah it's safe to drop them
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The red flag I always look for...
is this one.
gotta get them betches when playing capture the flag.
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The red flag I always look for...
is this one.
gotta get them betches when playing capture the flag.
jk uhh just general emotionally manipulative tactics I suppose...
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The red flag I always look for...
is this one.
gotta get them betches when playing capture the flag.
whats the photo?
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whats the photo?
yo just to let you know, I WILL throw your computer off the roof someday.
but:
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yo just to let you know, I WILL throw your computer off the roof someday.
but:
my school blocks everything
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my school blocks everything
THEN I WILL THROW YOUR SCHOOL OFF THE ROOF
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THEN I WILL THROW YOUR SCHOOL OFF THE ROOF
vio gl with that lol
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THEN I WILL THROW YOUR SCHOOL OFF THE ROOF
i NEED to see that. Make sure to get it on video!
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vio gl with that lol
YOU UNDERESTIMATE MY POWER
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When you're like their therapist
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when they say something strange or demeaning and try to excuse it by saying it's "just a joke"
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When you're like their therapist
this!!! and also the other way around. if a "friend" thinks they can solve your issues or think of themselves as the group's "mom" that's a sign to pack your bags and run
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If you're the only one that starts a conversation.
Me with all my friends and family! /j
but seriously it's tough to like someone and contribute to that "friendship" when they share 0% of that concern and letting go is even harder, even though it's the right thing to do
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YOU UNDERESTIMATE MY POWER
power where?
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power where?
INSIDE MY MUSCLES YAAAAAAAA
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INSIDE MY MUSCLES YAAAAAAAA
proof /j
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This is my true form mk. Embrace the fact
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This is my true form mk. Embrace the fact
poor Kirby
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poor Kirby
YOU FOOL! I AM KIRBY!!!
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YOU FOOL! I AM KIRBY!!!
fool where? :0
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fool where? :0
ITS YOU
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ITS YOU
you never heard of them? ni-ki!!
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you never heard of them? ni-ki!!
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haha slayyy as you deserves?
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If someone says something intentionally hurtful or continues to say things are “just a joke” when you’ve told them it hurts your feelings, it’s not going to get better.
People who don’t own up to mistakes. We all make them but if they can’t say “oh my bad, I effed up” but are continuing to shift the blame to others or even the..
Gaslighting around events, issues, conflicts - “I know you think…”
There are other red flags for me around things people say around race, gender, sexual orientation and inclusivity that will nope me out of there, like if a man refers to women at any point as “females.”
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There are other red flags for me around things people say around race, gender, sexual orientation and inclusivity that will nope me out of there, like if a man refers to women at any point as “females.”
but then he only ever calls other men "men" or even "kings"
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but then he only ever calls other men "men" or even "kings"
phew I only refer to myself as LSM!!! I'm glad I'm safe!!!
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phew I only refer to myself as LSM!!! I'm glad I'm safe!!!
also "boomer" even though you're a millennial
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also "boomer" even though you're a millennial
in spirit if not actually age!!!
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in spirit if not actually age!!!
Do you know where the name "baby boomer" is coming from? After world war 2 the largest number of babies were born ever in United States history in 1946. That's why they are called baby boomers because so many babies were booming at that time.
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my school blocks everything
frfrr
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