I am not joking.
This thought just crossed my mind.
In their own weird way, they really respect idols who in relationship.
They could have easily been like "well maybe he is your boyfriend but you get side chick treatment, because I am more important" or instead of "oh now I can't have him" they could easily be like "I'm gonna steal him from you" or "look he is texting us instead of you" or "b*tch behave it's my money you are spending" and so on.