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I'm the opposite.
I do not let myself become attached
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eyy well zuzu thats where we are opposites a bit. I only get close with a few users. But zuzu I really like your openness are ability to care for people, its what makes you such a great person to be around ofc there are downsides like thw fact that people take advantage of you etc but I think you should also remember the positives about your personality. Its a balancing act lol
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My problem related to that is my self esteem, so I end not liking being alone as if it was the end of the world.
But i'm training getting used to my own company more.
I don't know if i can make some progress, but who knows.
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eyy well zuzu thats where we are opposites a bit. I only get close with a few users. But zuzu I really like your openness are ability to care for people, its what makes you such a great person to be around ofc there are downsides like thw fact that people take advantage of you etc but I think you should also remember the positives about your personality. Its a balancing act lol
i guess so. i mean growing up i've realized how to avoid those and where to stop when i feel like im being taken advantage of, its just the unconscious things that happen that create the problems for me. and most of the time i pretend that im fine and happy with it, so no one really realizes that im upset with how things are, or the lack of communication and and interaction with said person.
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I used to when I was much younger. Not anymore. But I still have an irrational fear of being abandoned. So, to avoid feeling this way, I try at all costs not to get too close to people around me, except for the ones that are already part of my life, unless I genuinely like them and their company and decide to give them a chance.
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My problem related to that is my self esteem, so I end not liking being alone as if it was the end of the world.
But i'm training getting used to my own company more.
I don't know if i can make some progress, but who knows.
Sun Tzu said know thyself, know thy enemy - 1000 battles 1000 victories
the first part of the quote is know thyself and since that's half the battle...
I'm sure you will slowly come around to developing/strengthening your self-esteem my friend
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Thank you!
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i think it becomes a problem once you start attaching easily to people who don't treat you equally or give you the same care.. for example being attached to a friend or SO who is toxic or who makes you feel bad. otherwise i would say it's fine and it's something i experience often as well LOL
just make sure you're getting attached to the right relationships and people. always put your needs first
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