Posts by weirdchubbygirl

Love Dive is on repeat for me

Nah, I actually disliked it. It's my least favorite out of their three title tracks, making Love Dive my most favorite. I'll be passing this comeback, but I know they will do fine!

I know this hurts, but it's for the best. We need to let them go and let them grow as artists and individuals. They still have a lot to learn so they need to go on a quest and find themselves again. When they are ready, they will come back and it will be worth it. We will be waiting but for now we should be supportive and wish them well on their journey to rediscover themselves and their passion by having their own individual activities. I will definitely miss them, but I will still be here for them when they return. I am so proud of them and how far they came in life, so let's not forget that. It's also important that they are proud of themselves. They must feel like they're lacking something which is why they have made this tough decision to go their separate ways and focus on themselves.

Thank you for everything, BTS. You have all worked so hard and have always thought of your fans first. Thank you for always thinking about us. Good luck on your journey, we will all be waiting for you to come back stronger than ever. Now go on and live your own lives to the fullest

Quote from taeric

Is he 6 years younger or older? Sometimes men avoid older women since the society pushed the idea that men should the older in a relationship, so many are still loyal to this stereotype.

Or yeah, maybe he is busy or he isn't ready for a relationship. Doesn't mean it's your fault lol, you didn't do anything wrong. Sometimes I also engage in some conversations and don't realize the fact that they want something more.

It's ok, you can ask if he is alright or if something came up. And if he isn't interested in dating don't blame yourself. There are plenty of men, you will meet someone better.

He's younger. Thank you for those kind words!

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personally I wouldn't think too much of it

possibility 1 - he's busy so give him some time

possibility 2 - it is an age thing and he's not interested - no big loss right since he's not interested

possibility 3 - he's ignoring you on purpose - well he's a jerk and better off without someone like that no?

Yes, it's best to just focus on me right now.

Quote from selfmate

age is no issue if there's no major different in power dynamics involved

usually that matters more than the age difference by itself

but you are getting to know him and he is getting to know you

that's the purpose of dating to get to know someone to decide if that person is right for you (or not)

but since he has ignored me, I don't know if I should even ask him if he's okay or if everything is okay with him. Him ignoring me might not even have anything to do with me or our age. Maybe he's dealing with other things in his life, I really don't know. Do I text him first or wait for him to text me first since he went silent on me first?

So this actually relates to my previous thread which you can read here: Should I ask this cute guy out? Tips?

Basically, after reading through the comments about what move I should make from my previous thread, I ended up giving him a note with my phone number in it. In less than 30 minutes after giving it to him, I got a text message from him and I was so excited. I really was not expecting him to text me at all or text me so fast, but it made me happy. Also please know that I've never done this before so doing something like this, like giving a cute guy my number was definitely OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE. I've never been in a relationship or in love, so I have zero experience as an adult who's in my late 20's.

Ever since he texted me for the first time, he and I had only texted each other for a total of less than half a day. What happened and why so little? Well later that same night he asked me what my age was because I brought up about how long has he lived in the same town as me and he mentioned his age. Then he wanted to know what my age was, but I didn't respond until the next morning because I went to sleep. When I finally revealed my age to him the next morning, he just stopped texting me ever since then. We haven't texted each other since then, and now I'm wondering if I should just give it up.

This whole experience is all new to me, so I'm basically clueless as to what to do about this situation. I don't know how to face him if I were to encounter him at his workplace. I'm just giving him space right now. Honestly I'm in shock about our age difference too, so even I'm clueless if I should continue to pursue this or not. I think we both are unsure if we want to keep talking to each other. I've been wanting to give him my number since February and now that I finally had the courage to make my move and give him my number, we only talk for less than half a day of text messaging and he's ignoring me because of our age difference of 6 years apart?

Do I move on and forget about him? Do I give him space and wait until he's ready? What are your suggestions? I need all the help I can get from this experience.

Thanks for all the suggestions, guys. I will figure something out.

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Can't tell if he's into you based on what you've written but think you should go for it. He seems sweet and it won't hurt just to ask

I didn't want to write too much, but during our first conversation he asked me how my day was going and I told him that I had just gotten out of work. He asked me where I worked and then I told him. Then for some reason out of nowhere, as I was paying he somehow got distracted and did something that he wasn't supposed to do that surprised him. He had no clue why he did that. I was confused but made a joke that it was because he must have gotten distracted with our conversation which made him do something that he wasn't supposed to do. We just have short conversations here and there when he takes my order, so I'm not able to interact with him as much as I would like.

Quote from kingkook

I would actually have to see you both conversing to guess if he's into you

No way! I'd be too embarrassed. I'm not sure either, that's why I'm hesitating whether to make a move or wait a little more.

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Just hand him a small piece of paper with your number when the other employees look like their too busy to notice.

I actually already have a note with my number on it. It's just sitting in my wallet because I've been hesitating to give it to him

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What in the Wattpad That sounds so wholesome.

I think you should ask him out. He seems too sweet to miss out on.

But how do I do that? I get shy when the other employees are there with him. Like I don't want them to know, lol. He's even got some nice arm muscles.... it is quite muscular

After getting out of my early morning shifts, I would go straight to Target in my work clothes and then after I finish my shopping at Target, I would go stand in line to order something to drink and I would see this cute barista at Starbucks quite a lot. Please note that I've only ever seen two male employees at that starbucks location, but he's the one I've seen the most. Also keep in mind that I'm in my work clothes so I feel quite exhausted and sweaty. After our very first conversation when he took my order, I saw him again a few weeks later or so and he was unintentionally being funny when he took my order and cheered me up after having a shitty morning that day. After leaving the location, I looked at my cup to see what was written on it, and I noticed that there was a smiley face drawn on it along with my name on it of course. That cheered me up and made my day even more.

I don't do this often nor does this happen to me often, so I don't know what I should do. This happened a month ago and I've been trying to figure out what my next move should be, like if I should ask him out or get his phone number. Ever since then, every time I see him I get nervous and scared, so I end up just ordering my drink and talking to him without making my move and then leaving. My last interaction with him was me complimenting him on his tattoo that he had just gotten done on his arm. He told me about his tattoo a little bit and appreciated my compliment. I did wanted to give him my number that day but I was scared so I never did. Is he interested in me? What should I do the next time I see him? Is it too late? I need help.

As a girl who has never done this before, this is quite hard.

UPDATE (MAY 18, 2022): Okay guys, I took your advice and wrote my number on a note and gave it to him. Maybe around 30 minutes later or so, he sent me a text!!!!! Omg I was freaking out like crazy. I was so nervous when we were talking when he was taking my order. Then I just decided to just go for it and give him my note, and I did. I still can't believe that I finally did it. We have begun texting each other today. Thanks, guys. I just wanted to share this exciting news!

Dalla Dalla was hugeeeee, so I would say Dalla Dalla for sure.

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I use a local store from my country here albums are more expensive cost between 20-30€ but at least the shipping is free or only cost 7€.

But I heard KTown4u and Withdrama are the best options.

Thank you. Will be checking those two out :)

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I just buy mine off of Amazon or Target lol

It depends if Target has the specific group I'm looking for, but I would though.

Hello guys, can you guys help me out by telling me which websites are the best to purchase albums? I always forget because I hardly ever buy albums. Please tell me which websites I should purchase from, thank you!!! Anything helps.

Stray Kids! I've only been to three concerts in total- BTS, Monsta X, and Stray Kids as the last concert I went to before the pandemic started. Stray Kids was the most memorable for me and I enjoyed it the most, so I would love to see Stray Kids again, especially with their newest track Maniac. However, I would love to see Ateez, The Boyz, and Enhyphen.

Blessed cursed as the main

I was just curious so I thought it would be interesting to know if you got to debut in a girl group or boy group, which idols would you have your eyes on and would want to date? This is just for fun.

For me, if I debuted in a girl group I would definitely have my eyes on Enhypen and will be interested in dating one of them if the connection is there of course. They're handsome, always delivering amazing performances, and have good songs. They seem fun and have good personalities.

What about you guys? Let me know.