since victor asked before to name some ex he moved on from, I'll assume that's what minghao wanted to refer to when he mentioned jony j 
idr the exact episode, but after jony j and gong ge left, the 8 did mention that if they left cause they think he's lacking, he wants to prove he's not. I'm paraphrazing btw.
rrrrrrapmonster gurl please check your dms on discord. I see youโre active online
her last activity on akp was an hour ago, did you send a message before that ? 
LOVE THIS PERFORMANCE, beautiful instrument and beautiful vocals 
eleven > dalla dalla > black mamba >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> wadada
same thoughts, I'm happy jun chose to sing more in this show, he's more than a good dancer
I'll never shut up about junhui's good vocals 
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my fav didn't win 
but this is a cute pic
congrats to the winner and thanks for hosting rrrrrrapmonster
it would've been awkward if he picked one from the losing team tbh, the other one would be eliminated alone and that would be a sad situation.
I'm glad he chose to let both pairs stay
does this mean he's also performing in the finals ? I'm confused
eitherway he made a great decision and I love this mindset, he didn't give up, he just picked the best possible choice 
so junhui quit the competition 
I'm glad I still get to see the performance, I loved that musician's instrument
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oooo it does sound like dokyeom to me, im excited
I'm not sure I know all their voices too well yet 
, but it sounds like him to me too. excited if it's him 
I'm no saint but as far as I'm concerned I don't do any of this. I am a peaceful and pleasant fan who has had to put up with pointless arguments of youngsters here preaching and it does get a little tedious. I don't ever get involved in fan wars (not my thing) and just watch from the sidelines. The constant negativity is very off putting at times and makes me wish I was a silent fan who followed K pop without the internet. For the most part I try to brush it off. I just do me and my thing and hold my own views and opinions which I don't give a rats that is different from anyone else's. Part of being a grown up is having the integrity to admit when you're wrong or misguided and accepting defeat. Humility also helps.
End of my little rant.
you're one of the most peaceful users in this forum imo
makes me wish I was a silent fan who followed K pop without the internet
I miss those times of me being a kpop fan without caring about fandom stuff, it was so peaceful 
I have to admit, it's also fun to interact with people who share similar interests, so it's not like I regret it completely, and that's probably why I'm still here. but the negativity does throw me off sometimes and I consider leaving.
Part of being a grown up is having the integrity to admit when you're wrong or misguided and accepting defeat. Humility also helps.
I agree, none of us are saints but it's important to be able to admit when you're wrong.
wow the vocals
I loved all the guest performer ladies. so talented and sweet. this was probably my fav episode, had my fav performances as well.
this team combined vocal/dance/rap really well, it was the most complete stage in that sense imo. also loved their song choice.
minghao's dance btw 
definitely gonna check out liu xijun and su yunying's music, their voices are soo good
he's so thoughtful and sweet still praying for his speedy recovery
Display MoreYou are putting a lot of words in my mouth yikes. Talk about projections. Who ever said you are โboringโ and โnot matureโ?
Continue the therapy session, I didnโt barge in, this isnโt a private site so I can I come and go as I want. You clearly posted this for everyone or this would never have been posted in the first place.
Yes my advice is still the same. Relax and chill.
I don't think I need a therapy. I would've said idk who's projecting here, but I feel like I'd be offending people who actually have therapy sessions, so let's drop this part.
you didn't specifically say I was boring and not mature, but that doesn't mean I can't use those words in my reply. you were giving me advice to chill and not take things seriously, basically to have fun. and I said I'm perfectly fine the way I am, don't need advice from you. as you said this is a public space, I can write what I want.
pls stop replying this is getting ridiculous.
aww sad you wasted your time reading 
all I can see here is you trying to pass off hate as jokes and "it's just kpop" mentality to excuse toxicity. you don't like what this thread is calling out, so you're basically proving my exact point , sad you don't realize the irony.
if you read, I assume you read the part about me self reflecting as well ? why does it bother you someone is trying to analyze online posts of random users, while also trying to reflect on themselves ? why does it bother you someone sees everyone who works in the kpop industry as actual humans and calls out those who don't ?
no I'm not being smart, I'm being me and I'm sorry you felt like you had to barge in for whatever reason.
"don't take things too seriously life has taught me that" pls don't make me laugh 
as if I would ever need life advice from you of all people.
being mature, responsible and self aware doesn't make you boring or "taking things too serious" but I guess you wouldn't know that
I am sensing agitations
Here
Remeber itโs supposed to be fun
oh dw I'm enjoying 
at least I'm not obsessed with things or people I dislike, I don't need to be hateful to relieve my stress 
just wrote a rant, and will move on obviously, thanks for the concern 
btw, hiding under that "it's just kpop" umbrella is not cute, trying to shade others for taking humans and their careers seriously is not cute either 
you're not contributing anything useful to the thread so let's just stop.
I tend to credit a lot of the idols look to having the best make up artist and stylist. We all know make up plays a large part in how someone looks and even clothes can make you look better/worst. I've seen idols in very "comfortable" clothes and idols without make up and while most aren't "ugly" and still very pretty, they definitely don't look god/goddess visual status all the time. I feel there are a lot of "regular" people who are pretty and I'm confident given the same stylist and make up artist, they will also look like the prettiest humans in the world.
actually kinda agree with this point, I think many "average" people have the ability to look decent with the proper styling and make up.
that doesn't take away from idols beauty ofc, everyone have their own charms, cause of the nature of their job and with all eyes being on them, idols often have to be "presentable", while most commoners don't have as much pressure or as many professionals to take care of their looks
btw I'm glad you shared your opinion, despite hesitating 
But I never let this get in the way of enjoying kpop. I see the hobby as a fantasy, much like enjoying playing video game or watching a movie. I'll praise my faves like they're the prettiest, kindest, hardest working humans in the world, but it's all part of me partaking in the hobby itself but in reality, I'm very well aware and is conscience of all the issues you've mentioned but being realistic about it is no fun lol
fair enough, as long as it's enjoyable
I also don't get the whole idol are the hardest working praises. I'm sure the job is hard hard but so is just about every other job out there. Take for example, nurses, especially during the pandemic with only a fraction of the pay the top idols get.
I definitely think idols are very hard working, and I find fans praising them for their hardwork a sweet and rewarding gesture. I do aknowledge some other jobs can be just as challenging or more, but idt praising idols takes away from that.
I think my point in op has been misunderstood, I didn't mean I found issue with posts like "oh x idol is the sweetest, nicest, most hard working etc" those are normal and cute imo. what I usually find disturbing is some fans' need of downgrading the rest of people first, acting like their bias is the only decent human being left on earth on smtg. I find it cringe and unecessary, you don't have to talk about how everyone around you sucks or no one would do this or that gesture just to praise your bias for doing it, when it's actually not even a big deal.
