I don't want to crush on him again

    There is this guy that I used to have a crush on.

    He was also my first crush. (or one of my first crushes)


    And I'm scared of catching romantic feelings for him again.

    It has happened a lot that I caught feelings for him and then those feelings stopped and then returned.


    I have confessed my feelings for him before and I got rejected.

    I liked him for a long time and he never felt the same way.

    He only sees me kind of like a friend.


    Well... he is very sweet and kind towards me, which is why I fell for him.


    I think he likes someone else.

    And I wish both of them to be happy together.

    I feel like he would be sweet and kind towards this person.



    This thread is a bit random.

    ok

    so are you 100% you like have a crush on him??

    if you do then my best advice is to tell him :love: and if he doesnt like you back you can cry for a couple days, then get back to life. But before you tell him (if you ever do) make sure you know exactly what you feel, so if he does like you, you dont end up being the heartbreaker :melon_think:



    also i am 13 years old and have only 1 experience of love so do not listen to me

    I have SHET relationship advice but catching feelings for someone and then having that sensation disappear is normal for a lot of people!!


    If you can identify the reason for why those feelings sometimes stop you could perhaps avoid having them for good. Maybe something about him doesn't fully convince you or they just change because of something personal. If you're a teen then I should mention that we're often changing on a behavioral or emotional level which can affect the people we like being around and what our "type" is, so maybe six months ago you didn't see him the same way you saw him, say, eight months ago, or today.


    Just a hypothesis :pepe-notes::pepe-notes:

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    Quote from xoxoshawol

    I have a question, are guys (in general) not usually kind with you?

    I don't think guys in general are being trash towards me or anything like that.


    Even though when I was younger, I got teased a lot by the boys in school. (he didn't go to the same school though)

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    Was he like...the one? I think you should go for it...if he was like the one...you know like the gut feeling that it was meant to be kind of thing...I've had that happen to me a ton of times and I kind of regret not pursuing it...anyway if you like the dude...pursue.

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