I don’t like Fansites. I was once an avid follower of a lot of fansites and I was really in awe how dedicated some people can be when they like a certain artists but after attending a concert of BTS and seeing sasaengs (and fansites!!) of other artists in Korea I stopped supporting. This is why:
First of all, Fansites and I mean most of them - do weird things in order to attend almost every concert/fan meeting. Most small groups heavily rely on fansites promoting them for free and a lot of times these fansites can have a healthy relationship towards the artist but big acts like BTS or Twice (does BP have a fansite fandom?) have reached a certain point in their career where even the most dedicated non-sasaeng fan can’t keep up with every concert or schedule or cannot get access to every event. So, I am pretty sure that most fansites (especially for BTS) have to use lowkey sasaeng techniques to get to certain informations, entries to events and more. And that’s just the tip of the ice berg ( there are people like Headliner who have been exposed as literal sasaengs!). People often tend to use the “but the idol smiled at them“ excuse. Do you really think that an idol would give their sasaeng fansite the stinky finger? There are a lot of videos that show idols anxiously or without any emotion looking into fansite cameras.
Like this when JK recognized a fansite (who was blacklisted immediately)
Another big problem is how they behave at concerts. A lot of time these fansites have big ass illegal cameras and I know a lot of people who had bad experiences with how the fansites took pictures and blocked people from seeing or pushed people. Heck, some fansites even use stools at concerts. Here are bad experiences by people that attended BTS’ concerts. And sadly this is not unusual. Sometimes, fansites can even pull other people‘s hair or hit them intentionally (not with their camera, I mean with their fists)
My final point: Fansites are encouraged to get obsessive by the nature of the fansite fandom. These people dedicate a lot of time/free time and money into a parasocial relationship. They even get close (phyiscal and sometimes more than that) towards the person that they parasocially like. Encouraging it whether it is by fans or by the idol also gives people who are deluded a sign of hope that the celebrity that they stan will date or love or do whatever with them. This delusion is the reason why a lot of fansites are sasaengs. This futhermore hurts more the artist.
I think a lot of idols or most of them are really grateful for their fansites but hate them at the same time. Taking pictures once in a while of your favourite idol is okay or part of stanning but ruining other people‘s life or experience, stalking the celebrity and thus intruding their privacy should not be supported by anyone. This is why I don’t like most fansites.