How to fall out of love with people that are not right for you?

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Fuckboy/girls, forbidden or one sided relationships, exes you can't stop thinking about. Anyone. The ones that your brain registers as bad but they are all you can think of.

For me my short memory and a big group of boisterous friends are a blessing but then ya start dreaming about them

ik how that feels

Hmm well I was in a relationship with a girl I was crazy about and she loved me too, but after being together for a year or so, we found that we weren't compatible for a serious, long term relationship. It was really hard to break up but we both understood that we needed stability and the other couldn't provide that

I think it depends on what type of person you are. Some people know and understand when you need to break it off and others want to make it work so badly, they hurt themselves. Either way, it hurts a bit

Well find someone knew that is not a bad guy.

you dont.

if someone knows let me know too.

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if someone knows let me know too.

frr

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you dont.

my point

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if someone knows let me know too.

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Fuckboy/girls, forbidden or one sided relationships, exes you can't stop thinking about. Anyone. The ones that your brain registers as bad but they are all you can think of.

For me my short memory and a big group of boisterous friends are a blessing but then ya start dreaming about them

Honestly from my experience you have to give things time. I know you've probably heard this a million times before but take things slowly. And if you're having a hard time falling out of love with them, try and think of all the bad things about them that put you off. Think of all the cons about them, whatever those cons may be. Then you will feel less attached to them and the thought of them

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Honestly from my experience you have to give things time. I know you've probably heard this a million times before but take things slowly. And if you're having a hard time falling out of love with them, try and think of all the bad things about them that put you off. Think of all the cons about them, whatever those cons may be. Then you will feel less attached to them and the thought of them

That sounds cruel to me.

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That sounds cruel to me.

evil

I am no relationship pro but I think whenever you lose someone dear to you time is the best medicine and surrounding yourself with things you like

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That sounds cruel to me.

If they are a really bad and toxic person then it is okay. As long as you don't tell anyone bad things about them then I'm assuming that would be fine. I have only tried that when I was in a toxic relationship so I can't speak for everyone.

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evil

Even better word.

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If they are a really bad and toxic person then it is okay. As long as you don't tell anyone bad things about them then I'm assuming that would be fine. I have only tried that when I was in a toxic relationship so I can't speak for everyone.

Sorry you went through all of that. Hope you find better person.

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Honestly from my experience you have to give things time. I know you've probably heard this a million times before but take things slowly. And if you're having a hard time falling out of love with them, try and think of all the bad things about them that put you off. Think of all the cons about them, whatever those cons may be. Then you will feel less attached to them and the thought of them

Thank you! I'm really hoping time will heal it...I need to stop letting this person lead me along with promises that I know won't happen

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Even better word.

thank u

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If they are a really bad and toxic person then it is okay. As long as you don't tell anyone bad things about them then I'm assuming that would be fine. I have only tried that when I was in a toxic relationship so I can't speak for everyone.

they say they love u yet they keep hurting u and when u want to leave they guilt trip u into staying.....and when u do smt they dont like they threaten to break up wit u......making u feel like ur in a cage or in a prison at least he did to me

yea

I'm staying distant and keep myself busy with hobbies, passions and things I enjoy. After a while, I stop seeing them through the rose-coloured glasses, especially if the said person was a messy individual. During my last relationship, I realised that there were some issues but I choose to brush them under the rug. The post-break-up sober up gave me another perspective over this.

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It all pass. It has been said, "time heals all wounds".

haha my wounds a fresh and keeps getting salt put in it

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they say they love u yet they keep hurting u and when u want to leave they guilt trip u into staying.....and when u do smt they dont like they threaten to break up wit u......making u feel like ur in a cage or in a prison at least he did to me

yea

I am so sorry that you had to go through this... hope that you are feeling okay now.