I REALLY LIKE THIS GIRL...... SHOULD I MAKE THE THE FIRST MOVE?

This girl is literally an angel.

I like her a lot. I don't know if I should make the first move. We're pretty comfortable with each other.

Just escaped the jaws of death with Covid, Guess I don't want to lose any chance at this....

I am in dilemma now.....

What if I lose her as a friend? What if she stops talking to me?

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You know most of us will say yes.

I love my AKP family then

Quote from dong-thefirst

you say you're comfortable with each other

does that mean in a friendly platonic way?

or have you had some closer than friend physical moments?

or any sparks?

do you flirt?

if any of the above has happened and you're both good with it, you probably have a chance

if you're too comfortable as "just friends" without any closer connection, you might get rejected and lose her as a friend

try testing the waters first

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Oh shoot. I don't want to lose her.

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If you really like her then you should give a try. Try and fail is always better then never give it a chance

That's a great advice.

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im talking about possibilities

honestly think about it, if you had no physical interest in a friend and they suddenly confessed to you, wouldnt you feel awkward around them?

It will take time and effort to take that off both your minds if that happens.

but if she does like you, you gain a great relationship

as i said, its better to look for some signs for her before jumping in but that's just my opinion

i've fortunately met women who were pretty straightforward so i dont know how complicated those signs can get

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These fcking signs. I need to send some. I have test the waters first.

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Give it a little bit of time and see if she appears to like you back, but if you are over 60% (or so) sure that it's platonic then go for it. Life's too short to hide your feelings for someone

She does like me although i don't know how much. Comfortable enough to open up to me about her feelings about different things, I would say.

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i mean, there has to be physical chemistry, or atleast desire for physical chemistry, for two people to be beyond friends right?

Yeah. Gotta be careful now.

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That is one of the most important things in a relationship. As others have been saying though, test the waters a bit first and you will know eventually

Yeah i am going to test the waters.

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well she might also be one of those people who doesnt care about physical chemistry at all

still test sum if you are unsure

or just yolo confess if you cant wait anymore

good luck man

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Thanks

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I say you should send signals, at least try, because from experience, the regret of not trying hurts a lot.

It's a tricky situation. I'm not the greatest at actually getting the guys I like, but not trying and eventually being too late feels really bad.

I am not gonna let that happen.