What would you do if your new hubby's ex wife showed up to your wedding in a red wedding dress

tl;dr

So the groom invited her because the wedding was during one of her custody days (they share children together), but he did not tell his new wife that he did that. She assumed that she only dropped the kids off, as he never mentioned anything to her.

The ex wore a red mermaid style wedding dress. It was an actual wedding dress. In red. AKA the color that means 'I slept with the groom' to a lot of white Americans.

The bride asked her to leave and she refused. The MIL and groom tried to calm the bride down and allowed the ex to stay. If I was the bride, I'd run.

Quote from Ves

Who invited her? If it was the groom, run. In fact, you should probably still run, invited or not.

So the groom invited her because the wedding was during one of her custody days (they share children together), but he did not tell his new wife that he did that. She assumed that she only dropped the kids off, as he never mentioned anything to her.

The ex wore a red mermaid style wedding dress. It was an actual wedding dress. In red. AKA the color that means 'I slept with the groom' to a lot of white Americans.

The bride asked her to leave and she refused. The MIL and groom tried to calm the bride down and allowed the ex to stay. If I was the bride, I'd run.

Quote from ellenote

it's bout to be WWE up in that wedding room. my husband inviting his nasty ex wife to our wedding? he's getting 2 slaps to his face one on both sides. idiot. divorce papers and everything GET out the HOUSE NOW! people play too much. not on my WATCH.

the context is in the video but I'll copy paste my comment

So the groom invited her because the wedding was during one of her custody days (they share children together), but he did not tell his new wife that he did that. She assumed that she only dropped the kids off, as he never mentioned anything to her.

The ex wore a red mermaid style wedding dress. It was an actual wedding dress. In red. AKA the color that means 'I slept with the groom' to a lot of white Americans.

The bride asked her to leave and she refused. The MIL and groom tried to calm the bride down and allowed the ex to stay. If I was the bride, I'd run.

Quote from alexS

That has so many warning bells attached to it, I would not go anywhere near such a situation.

it's not too late to dissolve the marriage, hope she got an annulment

Quote from Sashimifreak

Why did the wedding dress have to be red though lol. If you have kids with the guy then obviously we all know you slept with him💀

But uhh I would have just not scheduled the wedding on a custody day, that way I wouldn’t have to invite my ex. But yeah husband is an absolute dumbass, why would you keep that from your bride to be

I think most people would assume that their ex (in normal circumstances) would be okay with the kids attending their parent's wedding on whoever custody day it is, and I don't think she should've ever worn a wedding dress to another person's wedding, let alone a red one to her ex's. She's evil.

Quote from Lulu_Key

I did not know that

I just like the color red and have alot of red dresses. I should note to never wear that to a wedding.

I only learned because of shows tbh