RE: My friends buy into those spoil your man trends and still get cheated on
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I mean how would she know he didnt deserve it tho
Personally, I'm someone that love to give gifts but life has teach the only people in my life that deserve it are my mom and grandma, nobody else is getting shit from me aside from them, no man, no friend
As harsh and sad as this may seem this will teach her to thrust nobody, ever -
"Women - make sure to give your man massages, men need physical touch too! Make sure to buy your man flowers, men need tokens of affection too! Make sure to stroke his hair and give him forehead kisses, men need romance too! Make sure to buy your man a gift for Christmas, men need to be spoiled too!"
I don't really disagree with this part^ (tho I changed the PS5 stuff). I mean in a relationship you show affection towards each other. Doesn't have to be the exact things written above but doing small things for each other is like a basic part of any relationship. Like who doesn't play with their boyfriends hair, cuddle them or buy them a birthday/Christmas present.
But it sounds like your friends are building their whole lifes around their boyfriends. Taking on a second job for your SO is in no way reasonable. Like how how did that even happen??
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I mean how would she know he didnt deserve it tho
Personally, I'm someone that love to give gifts but life has teach the only people in my life that deserve it are my mom and grandma, nobody else is getting shit from me aside from them, no man, no friend
As harsh and sad as this may seem this will teach her to thrust nobody, everI only spoil my mom
My grandma's over conservative opinions about women made me hate her as I grew up.
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what in the actual f?
Those ain't men, they little boys that need to be cuddled.
Dumbest shit I've read in a long time, and I'm on a Kpop forum.
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what in the actual f?
Those ain't men, they little boys that need to be cuddled.
Dumbest shit I've read in a long time, and I'm on a Kpop forum.
I mean some couples are more physically affectionate but the whole buy him a PS5 and send him to surprise vacay thing did it for me
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This happens when people don’t realize they are living in a one sided relationship.
My brother had a similar situation with his ex not appreciating a thing he did or even bought for her. He paid her rent twice, paid for all the vacations they went together and I don’t even want to start with the little gifts he gave her here and there…and she still cheated and then tried to act like she is the victim.
Although I say you should give without expecting anything in return, but because you really wanna do it. But don’t let yourself be used. If they show zero appreciation, stop it.
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Not even a husband. A boyfriend….. I would understand if he had sacrificed a lot for you too. But in this case they just did it to spoil them. That’s ridiculous.
You shouldn’t build your life around your SO. If you plan to stay together you both should find a compromise, no one should sacrifice so much for the other.
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