bullying within kpop groups is sad but not surprising

whilst true op the situation you've desrcibed is not the norm but rare... otherwise most kpop groups eill have some sort of bullying

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whilst true op the situation you've desrcibed is not the norm but rare... otherwise most kpop groups eill have some sort of bullying

Not knowing doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist tbh. Some bad attitudes like say Irene or some more severe stuff like AOA and ofc the slew of bullying scandals got revealed but chances are a chunk of kpop is filled with cliques and bad behavior.

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Not knowing doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist tbh. Some bad attitudes like say Irene or some more severe stuff like Apink and ofc the slew of bullying scandals got revealed but chances are a chunk of kpop is filled with cliques and bad behavior.

thats also true i can accept that...but why assume the negative until something comes out? otherwise wouldn't we be all pessimistic towards kpop as a whole ?

I understand things are like that but I find it stupid. If I was in a group I would try to make everyone get along.
We are going to work for years together if we like it or not and the least we could do is try to get along right? I have been bullied during highschool to some degree and when I got to a higher education whenever I had to live with people whom I know didn't like me and I always tried to treat them as kindly as I could.

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not saying it's the norm, just that the environment seems to be one that fosters bullying. i'm sure bullying within kpop happens more often than we know, it's just the bullied idols don't want to come forward and hurt the group

thats also true i can understand that...do you think that then kpop environment increases the likelihood of bullying compared to other situations such ax school, work, sports etc etc?

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thats also true i can accept that...but why assume the negative until something comes out? otherwise wouldn't we be all pessimistic towards kpop as a whole ?

Tbh the default is to assume the rich and famous are shitty ppl haha. And if they’re NOT then be pleasantly surprised instead.

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Tbh the default is to assume the rich and famous are shitty ppl haha. And if they’re NOT then be pleasantly surprised instead.

ok...i get ya..even for exo ?

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ok...i get ya..even for exo ?

Ofc. I’m never surprised if a celeb is shitty including exo.

I think it depends on the group. A lot of times their bound can actually grow stronger if they faced the same difficulties together.

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Ofc. I’m never surprised if a celeb is shitty including exo.

interesting so do you have an idol(s) which in your opinion seem like truly genuine nice people ?

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Not knowing doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist tbh. Some bad attitudes like say Irene or some more severe stuff like Apink and ofc the slew of bullying scandals got revealed but chances are a chunk of kpop is filled with cliques and bad behavior.

just wanted to point out that you’re talking about april not apink lol. Apink would never appear anywhere in the same sentence as “bullying”, considering they’re literally the oldest gg left still together and active under the same company

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just wanted to point out that you’re talking about april not apink lol. Apink would never appear anywhere in the same sentence as “bullying”, considering they’re literally the oldest gg left still active under the same company

girls seem tight as fuck, cmiiw, but didn't they all pretty much agree to follow their leader when it came to contrants?

Ya I don't find it super surprising either. People around that young teenage through young adulthood are very hormonal and fame makes people act up as well. Combine that with the social pressures, they probably take it out on their members...

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just wanted to point out that you’re talking about april not apink lol. Apink would never appear anywhere in the same sentence as “bullying”, considering they’re literally the oldest gg left still together and active under the same company

I MEANT TO TYPE AOA IM SO SORRY IM A FLOP

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girls seem tight as fuck, cmiiw, but didn't they all pretty much agree to follow their leader when it came to contrants?

i’m not sure i get what you mean by “contrants”? 🤔 do you mean contracts? Then yes apink decided to all renew with plan a in 2018 (they debuted in 2011) to continue together as a group thanks to their leader chorong’s leadership, meaning if there was bad blood going on between the members there’s no way they could’ve lasted 10 years now and outlived literally every other gg (aside from brown eyed girls who’s still together but under different companies). So yeah

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interesting so do you have an idol(s) which in your opinion seem like truly genuine nice people ?

No one. Like I’ve said in other threads.

Ofc I think say exo or Kai is a nice person in whatever he’s shown us so far. But whose to say they’re actually nice ppl. No one knows.

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I MEANT TO TYPE AOA IM SO SORRY IM A FLOP

ohh lmaoo ok point noted  

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i’m not sure i get what you mean by “contrants”? 🤔 do you mean contracts? Then yes apink decided to all renew with acube in 2018 (they debuted in 2011) to continue together as a group thanks to their leader chorong’s leadership, meaning if there was bad blood going on between the members there’s no way they could’ve lasted 10 years now and outlived literally every other gg (aside from brown eyed girls who’s still together but under different companies). So yeah

typos will be the death of me yeah, thx tho