What are some things relatable but not acceptable

between you and parents / siblings?

when little i felt my dad considered mistakes are disgraceful and luxury bcoz either me or him has to pay for it so NO mistakes. this continues as i grew up and found out the idea can be chicken and egg in many cases when it comes to being successful or not

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disciplining one's kid???

there's a fine line between discipline (especially the Chinese method of discipline) and abuse

disciplining is bit of broad term here.

im talking individual concept or things being done.

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what do you mean my friend?

like the concept in OP lo.

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i did not understand the question

things or thoughts you may understand why parents/siblings have done , they did it out of good intention but you simply can not accept or don't think them correct.