To some its, the honesty factor.
Lets be real, No matter what the song is about , girl groups choreography always revolve around swinging their hips, wearing dresses shorter than my belt and singing lyrics that you know was meant for the male fantasy.
But it ain't like girl crush is honest either. No matter how much they talk about "not needing no man" that same man probably chose the song, your outfit, paying for all of it, setting up your schedule and could replace you in a month.
So we should just agree that concepts don't really mean anything and judge by music.