Solve love puzzle. Best answer gets 50 akorns

  • What's true according to you? 11

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    A liked B who was wishy washy


    So A dated another boy, C to make B jealous.


    A never wanted C to know their og intention as A unexpectedly fell in love with C who was a lot more serious than A was. (Was A lying to themselves out of guilt?)


    C found out A's og intention


    AC still dated. C tattooed A's name.


    AC broke up.


    A dated the B. B was still wishy washy.


    A really loved B but never admits it.


    AB broke up. A went into hiding.


    B did his level best of subtley plastering A everywhere to get A back.


    A was glad but was too ashamed to be seen with a player.


    C came back. A rejected C.


    A dated people after but was still haunted by BC


    A is troubled with dreams of B and remembers them all.


    Today A dreamt of C for the first time. A feels disoriented since the dream...


    A still mentions C as an ideal partner and doesn't like the thought of dating anyone but C publicly.


    Society accepted A and C but not A and B even though the latter is the norm.


    A feels guilty to be seen with any other person in fear of being slutshamed by society. So what do you think is going on?

  • I think A needs some time alone to reflect and heal themself first.


    Dating C only to make B jealous. I couldn’t imagine how I’d feel if I found out someone only got with me to try to get to somebody else. Even if they said they actually liked me now I can’t say I’d trust them very much. I think that says a lot about C to still even trust A that much to even stay after finding that out.


    That being said if A is being haunted by dreams at night of their exes and it’s even affecting them trying to date new people I think that says a lot. All the fears of what society thinks and the slut-shaming concerns preventing A from even feeling like they could be with someone. For A to go into hiding after the break up with B means that also probably affected A pretty badly.


    I think A needs to just stop all the dating and take sometime to themself. Figure out what and who they truly want, heal from all the issues from the past relationships, reflect on their own past actions, and work on improving their mindset as well.


    At least that’s my take on the whole thing.

  • He he what do you think is up self sunbaenim?

    I couldn't quite get your sentence but I'm assuming you want an answer to the actual question lol


    I can't even remember what I voted for so here we go:


    1. Context matters (such as age, gender, experience, family, social economic status, stage in life etc etc) since I don't know the full story I can only go by what I've been given


    2. A needs to move on and fast...neither B nor C seem to be good partners for A since the starting point was flawed...ie there will always be baggage with either one of them...


    3. dating a lot or meeting lots of people should be supported since who does one know which is the ONE without experiencing different things? one eats fruits and meat and veggies and tofu and Chinese and Mexican and American and Japanese and etc etc to know which they like or not...same can be said of dating...


    4. What does A actually want...this is the biggest unknown since A's wants and needs should be respected and considered


    (that's all for now)

  • A shouldn't date anyone for a while. The situation seems messy. It's would be better for A to take a break and focus on themselves for a while. Maybe A will get together with A or B later on but right now doesn't seem to be the time. A should let go of it the best they can and focus on other aspects of their life. Some distance would probably make the situation become less complicated and they might figure out where their head is really at.

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