Being “nice” is even below the bare minimum for a human

    Nobody likes “nice” guys, nobody likes “nice” people, and that’s because it’s considered the lowest form of value a person that provide. Unfortunately many people think “being nice” is the bare minimum when it’s actually less. Here’s what people value:


    - looks

    - wealth

    - property

    - power

    - intelligence

    - entertainment

    - sex

    - close bond


    So why are those important? Because they can actually help with survival of a species. Being nice offers no benefit. And it will actually put you at risk because you will seem weaker and expendable, if you can’t provide those key values besides your niceness.


    The fact is there’s an increase of people who can’t provide value. They think because they put BLM on their profile, do hashtags, go with the flow, make “callouts” and do other “nice” things that substitutes for value. Yet in a few years they’ll be wondering why their life stagnanted and their only achievements was posting achievements on a kpop board of their biases who are anything but “nice” judging from their past messages.

    Everyone likes nice people, what they dislike is awful people who pretend they are nice just for their own advantage and when they don't get what they want they drop their masks

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    Quote from catzi

    Everyone likes nice people, what they dislike is awful people who pretend they are nice just for their own advantage and when they don't get what they want they drop their masks

    I'm a nice person but it's been my experience that being "nice" can be a bad thing at times. People tend to use you and take advantage of your shortfalls and you don't get appreciated as much. Noticed that here especially.

    Honestly, it really depends on the person. I think being a genuinely nice person is important not just so people can like you, but for your own beliefs and morals. Kindness can be a strength if you use it to your advantage. Unlike those factors you listed, being nice isn't a "standard". But it's something you definitely have to put value into yourself or it means nothing as you said.

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