What’s your opinion of people who identify with things they weren’t born with?

  • I heard that Oli identifies as a gay Korean man. Then I saw a lot of stans put him down. But I thought, isn’t that intolerance? There’s many people in the world and not all of them will identify with things we think is “normal”. I never understood the concept of needing to criticize people for what they identify as. If you want to judge then judge Oil’s actions against others, not his identity.


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  • BRO


    Oli London is an attention-seeker, is it too hard to comprehend? He's only doing all this to get attention.

    But what gives you the authority to judge him like that? Transwomen were told for decades that them wanting to be trans was:


    - a phase they were going through

    - didn’t get attention from women so they’ll get it from men

    - from trauma or other mental ailment


    To you calling him an attention seeker for his identity may seem like nothing to you, but you are not in his head. Identity shouldn’t be something for others to judge. If it’s not something you care for, just ignore it.

  • His past actions. Are you new to Kpop?

  • I heard that Oli identifies as a gay Korean man. Then I saw a lot of stans put him down. But I thought, isn’t that intolerance? There’s many people in the world and not all of them will identify with things we think is “normal”. I never understood the concept of needing to criticize people for what they identify as. If you want to judge then judge Oil’s actions against others, not his identity.


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    As expected...

    He probably didn't design this, probably grabbed it from the net... Is he in Korea right now?

  • I’m not comparing. I’m only saying all identities should be valid regardless what the majority once think

    Oli saying he’s Korean when he’s a British man is the equivalent of people who do blackface for costumes. Using it as an aesthetic is nothing like the experiences trans individual go through every day. You don’t just choose to be trans, you can choose to be ignorant

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    As expected...

    He probably didn't design this, probably grabbed it from the net... Is he in Korea right now?

    okay he broke a law. But that has nothing to do with his identity

  • okay he broke a law. But that has nothing to do with his identity

    listen we arent judging his identity

    but its the way he acts

    because of all the things he's pulled i don't if he's lying or not when he says hes non-binary

    its thinking that plastic surgery will change his nationality to korean and that being korean is a pro noun?

    all the stuff he pulls is all for clout

  • The difference is that gender is inherent. Science used to think that gender was mutable and something that could be imprinted on a child if they were raised as that gender from a young enough age. We know now that that isn't true. However gender is formed, whether it's through a combination of genetics, hormone wash, whatever, we know it's not formed by environment (nor is it dependent on outward genitalia btw).


    Race and ethnicity are social constructs made of a wider variety of combination of physical traits, heritage, community identity, and lived experiences (especially shared experiences). It's not something you inherently are or something you can suddenly become.

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