Why do people love antagonizing older man dating younger women?

because younger women get taken advantage of more often. doesn't matter if there's obvious signs of grooming or not, we're not on the relationship. lots of shit goes on behind closed doors.

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I think it depends on how big the gap is and at what age, like a 20 year old with a 27 year old is more problematic than a 28 year old with a 35 year old

ever heard the (unspoken) rule of 1/2 one's age plus 7?

like the youngest you can date is half of one's current age and add seven?

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I've heard it but I still think it's too lenient. It would endorse the 27/20 scenario and I just think a 27 year old is in a much different phase of their life and maturity than a 20 year old.

1/2 of 27 is 13.5 + 7 is 20.5 so it's about right lol

now back to the actual topic at hand...but they are both consenting adults no?

lots of people get together in different stages of life...we're talking about merely dating not marriage though

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I'm not interested in banning it or anything and I'm not saying it never results in a healthy viable relationship, I just think that if I saw a 27 year old who consistently went after 20 year olds I pbly would sideeye their motivations and maturity level.

make sense make sense...

without knowing your personal situation what's the oldest person (male or female) you would consider dating?

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Well I'm old and I think the differences lessen as we age. My preference would be to date someone within ten years either direction. I think I'd be more willing to stretch it older than younger.

are you comfortable sharing exactly how old you are my friend? (it not it's all good)

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Sorry, I try not to be too specific with any of my details online.

all good all the the time