KJH controversy...

... made me realize how we (in general) don't understand how toxic women can be in relationships.

First of all, it's still all rumors so I won't talk directly about them, but the situation of woman toxicity and how this is still seeing as fantasy.

After the whole controversy came to light involving a woman being the toxic, mind controlling and upper hand of the relationship i was really surprised about how so many are dismissing the victim bc he is a man... Like??

Going by this logic is just invalidating others struggles and let's be honest, there are so many men suffering within their relationships bc of their partner's attitudes and they are still silenced bc of how society still reacts towards these situations...

I'm not trying to make it a whole new discussion, but that situation made me think of how we still have so many things to change. So many things to learn and so many things to just think outside our box.

Anyways, I'm just thinking and though about sharing it with you guys. Bye!

Quote from Sara-M

Thank you for bringing this into light

You know, you are really sweet!

Quote from Lady_luck

man this so true. Un requested story time I actually was one of those a women for a split second.

Growing up I was a late bloomer so I was picked on all through out middle school and first half of high school. A group of the popular boys even gave me the nick name Yuck in grade 9 "I was so ugly to them everytime they saw me all they think is Yuck..." is what they said which stuck to point that no one knew my real name they just knew me as Yuck for 2 years.

During my grade 10 summer break however..Everything blew up. Hips breast booty. Everything !I came in to my features too..puberty hit my like truck.

When I came back , I seduced them, and had them wrapped around my little finger. I was charming at first, and the moment I had them....I turned evil.

I made them do somethinnnngs... made one get a tattoo of my name on his ass. The other walk miles for me, forced them to cry on spot for me, even FIGHT each other. I called one up the night before an essay was due. Asked him to run through his Thesis for me. Showed up the next morning asked him if I could put my name on his essay and told him if he loved me he would rewrite another one or take the fail . He did. And I DIDNT EVEN NEED THE ESSAY. I was scorned and evil. All this without sleeping with them. Just promises and a couple kisses... wasn't like that outside high-school but still..

Women have the power to run a man into the ground if their claws are dug deep enough. Make no mistake.(Men too)

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Oh well. I do hope you changed!

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it's so clear how society ignores males victims it's a debate that seems to be controversial but it shouldn't, it's not up for debate that women can be as vicious and evil as any equally mean man, because in the end of the day men and women are HUMANS we are the same species and we share similar traits and we can be good or bad at the same level, people really must live under a rock if they think women aren't able of evil things! I am a woman and I am aware of all the bad things we can go through, but turning a blind eye for male victims do more harm than good for any kind of progress for our society in general, it just angers me, because I thought people wanted fairness... I do however am glad that in the real world majority of people at least understand in theory what equality really means.

I feel like this stupid and infantile "women r pure uwu" dumb rhetoric only is more existent on the hell of the internet, also i hate this because it makes look like women are forever to be childs and never held accountable needless to say this rhetoric is damagind for all sides.

The way you wrote a whole essay

Thanks for the interaction and yes, you were on point!