Yeah, and I think that's sad. But people tend to be scared to end up looking like a weirdo, when they talk about things they may experienced. A lot of people also tell me that most of it just was my imagination and I actually kept a lot of it to myself until I had a roommate that was very interested in anything occult and had that as a hobby for a while. So talking to him made me talk and also accept the fact more. I often also thought "Oh, you're imagening things. You're so creative and you watched too much 'Supernatural', that's where it comes from."
But I not only had like scary things happening but also things that made me happy or comforted me. So I don't only believe in the scary and spooky stuff, but also in the good one. And in nature and science things are always in balance. "Every reaction has an equal and opposite reaction", thats Newton's third law. So I think it applies for the supernatural, too.
I'm glad that you were able to talk freely about your experiences with your roommate.
Also, Newton's third law really can make sense in a situation like this.