what are things that kpop fans need to realize?

you shouldnt take kpop seriously. stop defending your favs, you know absolutely nothing about them, you're not their mother. they're grown up celebrities.

calling certain groups or idols gay is getting extremely annoying, we can joke about it, but i cant stand when younger fans make special videos to prove that stray kids/txt are 'fruity'. them acting a bit 'gay' is just fan service, its actually quite sad that they're forced to behave that way to attract fans.

That a lot of the fanwars people engage in are just petty, silly, and dumb. It's not that deep.

Pretty much agreed with everything you said.

Doing a lighter concept isn't "westernized".

Fair line distribution =/= Equal line distribution

"Oppa didn't mean it"

Sometimes oppa did mean it.

That fans do not have to like the same song or group as someone else. We’re all different and that’s a good thing.